Attracted to my teacher...

[Shanaroma]

I am 14 and I have a massive crush on my English teacher! He is beautiful! If you've ever seen antis thongs and perfect snogging then you will know that he main guy robbie is fit! Well he is a 24 year old version if him! He is a really nice guy! His lessons are really fin and you can have proper convocations wig him! but he always makes comments that come out wrong and rude and they just make me and every other girl in the class  more attracted to him! I know I can never gt wih him, that's not my problem or anything but I just want to know if there's any tips or opinions or past experiences anyone can tell me! ANYTHING is exeptable! Just please help! Thank you!:)

[Shanaroma]

Hehee thank you!;)

[Londres70]

Again, this is just a phase that I think all young people go through; normal.  

However, maybe try to keep in mind your goal when entering his class, which is NOT to obsess about the crush and him, but your grade and that you can't afford to "fall back" as you said.  

A phase that will pass.  Very normal.  

BTW:  I had a crush on a Biology teacher one time.  He was a very young teacher.  So, this is nothing weird or strange as long as it remains a "crush" only.  

Just keep telling yourselves:  "I need to focus and keep my grades up and I need to stay busy."  

[Shanaroma]

Oh no I know I can't hook up with him! That's notthe problem atalanta! Its that I don't want to have a little crush on him because I want to keep my grades up! I'm in top set for everything and with gcses coming up I can't afford o fall back! And I also to trampolining 3 times a week and gymnastics 2 times a week! I also do babysitting 1 time a week so I don't really have time for boys but at my age it's hard not to be attracted to them that's why I'm asking for any help or tips!;) and thank you overopiates!;)

[overopiates]

She is NOT totally focused on irrelavent things.She is 14 and has crushes on boys.thats completely normal.No matter if u get great grades,involved n extra ciruculars(like band,sports etc),has Lots of friends she will have crushes and they will get a lot of focus.I had all those things and was still crazy about my crushes.Sweetie its fine+really common2get a crush on a teacher.As long as its 1way,nothing happens from it and the teacher isnt at all inappropriate ur fine+dont sweat it.

[RockRose]

Shana,  you need to find other things to occupy yourself besides men and boys.  Between this teacher,  and 16 year old James,  you are totally focused on irrelevant things to your life.

Do you have girlfriends who are involved in positive things - Church,  volleyball,  basketball,  junior honor society,  volunteering,  etc.?  

This is a pivotal time in your life,  where you cement positive friendships and habits that will carry you through high school and college.  

[specialmom]

Hi there.  Well, at the tender age of 14, your old enough to understand what I am about to tell you.  You are what we call in the states 'jail bait'.  He'd lose his job for even acting like he was interested in you and go to jail for acting on it.  And truth be told, most men of that age like to be with women of their own age. There is no real reality in what you describe if he is a man of character or one that is fully developed mentally to know how dumb it would be to hook up with a student/14 year old.

Crushes are good fun but make sure you keep your head on what is real and what isn't.  Study English when in English class because most men that are 'real' catches like a smart woman that took her studies seriously.

Good luck-----