drug addition

[tatie68]

ineed help for my husband i just found out he is and hasbeen addicted to pain pills and stells my a n my sons meds so he can get high and the new thing ime and our son walked in on him snorting something and today i was told ithe has moved on to cocane or worst he denies it and has cuased me out every day says he going to hurt me and teyed to put me out of our hom we ust moved in to cuz i lost every thing about 1 yr ago cuz now his problem i dont know what to due i cant work our son has bad seizuers eiplecy and i know i have to get away from be fore he  hurts on e of us pleases help me and what i can do to get him back pleases

[tatie68]

its mental abuse that he does to me and our son has eplicey so he on pain meds and vauil an depoket and i am diss abled form a car weck in 1993  and i am on pain meds anxity meds blood purese meds and we have sit done and had along talk and he noes he has aproblem and i told him why i was leaveing him and he had to get help and not to call me untile he did i know thta a person sddicted will not get hepl untlie the hit rock bottom or they honest want to we have to kids an ther24 and 18 i have movedout of  the state we lived in witch was my home town he is going to concling  for hes problem and i have to go back to hes consleing 2 x in the next 2 moths i reallly dont want to becase i dont know it i can ever turst him agian thank you

[specialmom]

Hi.  Well,  your post is a bit confusing. He's been stealing your meds and your son's meds.  What kinds of meds are you on?  How long has he been stealing them that you just now noticed his addiction issue?  

You wrote "I know I have to get away from be fore he hurts one of us pleases help me and what I can do to get him back please".  I'm not sure I understand the question.

You do seem to know that you can't stay with him.  He's abusing drugs and you are now describing him as violent.  So, call a women's shelter, your family, your church, whomever and make plans to move.  Do it as soon as possible.

You can not change anything about him until he gets sober.  Will he go to rehab?  

I think you've been living with this situation for a while and now see it as worse and you still don't want to take steps to remove yourself and your son from the situation.  You have to now.  Not sure what your condition is that you can not work------- if you collect disability.  But you are going to have to come up with a plan to protect your son from this volatile and unhealthy type of household.  
good luck