feeling down

[immaculate]

well here goes friday before last i met this girl while i was shopping and we exchange numbers and soon after i was talking to her everything same to be going well so last friday i brought her lunch at her house and she wanted to use a pc so ibrought her home by me.we talk and i must admit i feel bad for braging about stuff and when i drop her of i kiss her but i dont feel she wanted that kiss she was smillin but deep down inside i feel i wasbeing fake with her.since friday i;ve text her once sunday and called her today and text but she didnt answer,i feel she isnt into me because i did something to turn her off...i can get other women but at this point dont because after they meet up with me i dont display what they want,and honestly i'm feeling down because i cant seem 2 get wat i want and thats the story of my life...so ladies give me your views do i still have a chance with her? or it;s done for?

[immaculate]

i'll have to agree with teko i have cause it i guess it's just that seeing how smooth other guys are i wanted to be like that but i guess i'm not like that and above that i had not had a girl for a while so all of that made me rush things which cause her to back off.and top of that i was braging and telling fake stories which i dont feel cool about,i never really show no woman who i'm really is and the real me is always calm,relax

[teko]

When you meet someone, try making friends and leave the lover stuff on the back shelf for awhile. A gal does not necessarily wanna be kissin ya on the first or even second or third date! You will maker her feel like you just want sex and they will split before ya ever even get to no em.  In other words slow down!

[vmvnpv]

The right one will fall into you lap when you least expect it.  If she's not into you then she's not worth your time.  You will meet someone who is really into you and you don't ever feel like you're being fake with her.  They will love you for who you are and you will be comfortable being yourself around her.

[megochick101]

I'm curious about the comment that you felt you were being fake with her.

What felt fake? Were you just not being yourself with her? If you want to find the right girl for you, you're going to have to put yourself out there and be true to yourself. You won't find the woman who's right for you unless you show her who you actually are.

There's plenty of women out there, and like the others said, you'll find someone for you.

[jo929]

I agree with the other Poats, just be yourself, and when she come along both of you will know it  luck  jo

[imanaddict]

I am jealous you live in the Bahamas! I went to Nassau in October and didn't want to come back, the people there are so amazing! Okay, now that I've said that..LOL! I agree with Judy. Be yourself and find someone who appreciates your unique qualities and that will love you for YOU. You can't force love. It finds you when you least expect it. Don't waste your time on someone who isn't into you. Otherwise you just might let that special someone slip by and never know it.

[Judy246]

Sweetie, then just move on. You will meet a girl who is going to love  and appreciate you for who you are, so just be yourself and don't worry about what anyone thinks about you. You are  young and have a long way to go. Life is a journey...make sure to surround yourself with good friends, good people, your family and a positive environment, and everything else will fall into place naturally, including that special girl that you are looking for, but it will happen naturally.