I agree with SpecialMom.
It is NEVER easy to leave a Relationship, and One does not leave without feeling Pain and Heartache. It always feels bad to lose a Romance, to realize something You once thought was so Right and so Good no longer is. You wouldn't even HAVE the "Capacity" for Love if You didn't feel Emotional at the loss of Love. In that sense, HeartAche is "almost" a "necessary" pain. So, if You feel it is right to be done, then that is what You should do, You may be a little scared, and Your Heart may be a little scarred but it's still Beating and Healthy and Whole and it will Repair itself.
Didn't Shakespeare tell us - "it's better to have Loved and lost than to not have Loved at all"?? He did forget to tell us that the next Love is ALWAYS Greater and it IS - it really, really is!! - So, I also agree with SpecialMom's second post.
Good Luck
It's always hard to break it off with someone. I've been there. But when you are in love and connected to a new guy, you'll wonder why you put up with the issues you and this guy have for so long. I promise.
Breaking free from something that has run it's course is hard. But I empower to take care of yourself by doing so. Peace and luck to you
Thank you...
It really is emotional and upsetting. I poured so much of myself into the relationship left every scar open bared it all and it's not enough. I want the relationship but know I'm not sensing that connection anymore.
Hi there. Sweetie, it is always hard to leave a relationship. You can care about someone and realize that the match isn't working. I think you are aware that it isn't working. Don't waste any more of your time with a guy that isn't right for you as it stops you from finding the one who is.
peace and luck. Be brave and strong.