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Partner left....I am pregnant....
well if anyone has read my last posts then you are familiar with my situation with my partner....
well the time apart thing isn't working, and he doesn't want to be with me.....he says he's been talking with his ex wife (which explains his weirdness) and that he doesn't know if he can be with me....
on top of all that i get a BFP.....
and I don't know what to do.......because I don't even think he cares.....
well the time apart thing isn't working, and he doesn't want to be with me.....he says he's been talking with his ex wife (which explains his weirdness) and that he doesn't know if he can be with me....
on top of all that i get a BFP.....
and I don't know what to do.......because I don't even think he cares.....
I hope this man is going to be responsible and also honest to his ex about your pregnancy.
we have been together forever...and believe me when i say, his money is not tight...(i.e. way too much a year)..On the other hand I live on a very tight budget....and he has never offered any help to me for anything (which I respect, because when you do it on your own, you appreciate it more).....
he is hung up on his ex...and i can't change that...
he is hung up on his ex...and i can't change that...
wow! like a soap opera huh? just to give him the benefit of the doubt, he is probably trying to digest this whole thing too. it take guys (sorry!) a little longer to digest things and thing it all through. if money is tight for him, you can bet thats what he is thinking. i would definitely give him room to think and more time. i would bet he'll come around. try not to think too far up the road just yet (like, not considering him the father, support, and so on)you have 9 mo. to work it all out.
he knows that i am pregnant....and i think sometime this evening we are supposed to talk about it....but, if he is uncaring towards me, then I am going to consider him to not even be this child's father...because i don't need anymore drama....yes I was being careful (you better believe I CAlled the H.Dept. today and screamed "how could this have happened?")....I was on lo-overal....and had been taking them properly, but apparently, the dose wasn't high enough....(that is their explanation)......
he had said that he wanted kids...but now he is just weird....and it was soooo abrupt, that I am unable to process what is going on.....we were fine two/three weeks ago....and now, nothing....
but I will keep the child either way.....
he had said that he wanted kids...but now he is just weird....and it was soooo abrupt, that I am unable to process what is going on.....we were fine two/three weeks ago....and now, nothing....
but I will keep the child either way.....
I'm sorry to hear the bad news. Didn't you say that your partner had a drinking problem though? (could be another post, but I thought this was the same person)
The good news is, this pain won't last forever... this is temporary and you never know... anything can change. Anything is possible. But you are going to have to sit down and decide what you are going to do now that you are pregnant. Any thoughts yet about this ?
i am so sorry...right now. at this point all i have to say is i just cannot believe this. i cannot imagine what you are going through. does he know you are pregnant? i thought after all you have been through you were being "careful"? this situation is just awful. if i cant think clearly, i cant imagine you can. the only one thing i do know is things always work out for a reason. remember that.
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