He can't keep an erection

[frustrated946]

I am having an affair. because my husband refuses to have sex with me.  I met a guy on line who is also married.  We met up twice now.  The problem, is he can't get an erection.  He told me that he has diabetes and maybe this has something to do with it.  He feels real guilty about not being able to please me.   I really like him and want to see him again, but he thinks I should find someone who can please me.   I feel real bad that this keeps happening with us.   I really wanted this to work for us.  I don't want to find someone else.  I want to have sex with him.  What should I do????

[jo929]

there must be a reason that your husband wont or cant have sex with you, have you asked him why, and by the way you are cheating, and is this what you planned when tou said i do before God. if you want to run around get a divorce first  jo

[specialmom]

Let me get this straight . . . you are having an affair because your husband won't have sex with you with a man that can't have sex . . . how in the world does that make sense?  

Obviously, it isn't about sex.

[mami1323]

Haha I'm sorry but this is absolutely ridiculous. Is it completely impossible to leave your marriage first before looking elsewhere and can't you do it with an unattached man this way so many people will not be hurt by your lies and betrayals. I feel like this is karma full force because you wind up with a man who can't fulfill your needs either. Its a beautiful thing.

[boogiefly]

Hello, why won't your husband have sex with you. Maybe you should into that before you look elsewhere. Why do you think this justifies an affair? Have you tried masturbation? Leave the diabetic dude alone, maybe he feels bad that you are married. Lots of ED cases are subconcious.