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How do you deal with this situation?
My boyfriend just found out recently that a girl he messed with in the past just had a baby and she claims it's his. My dad says the baby looks like him. I've never dealt with this before I'm not even sure what to do. I'm also having his son in October. The baby was just born 2 days ago. I'm a ftm I really don't know what to do because it hurts so much and I've never been through this before. I'm like literally in tears everytime I see or talk about this. Need some good advice?
I would ask him to get a paternity test. Ask him when was the last time he was with her. And if it turns out to be his child he has to be responsible and take care of that baby. If you still love him and hes willing to change than you guys can work things out. If not than he still has a responsibility to take care of your child too. Dont cry everything will get cleared up!
1st things first Ask him to get a paternity test just so u can know . And it was a while ago if u trust him now then be with him and just ask that he is honest with you about evrything from now on . Hes going to have to be a part of that babys life as well its going to be hard if it is his baby but it will be manageable . Good luck
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