Yes, get out of that relationship. First off, You do not have to hire a lawyer to handle child support issues. Look up Child Support Enforcement (CSE) in your county or state that you live. Most people do not know that pursuing child support can cost as little as a $25 application fee, instead of thousands of dollars you would spend on a lawyer. CSE will help locate the dead-beat, establish paternity (if he denies involvement), when he is found as father , he will be charged for the paternity testing. A child support order will be established and will be enforced (collected on). He will have to send paymnt to a central registry system. If he doesnt pay, there are several remedies used to get him to pay. all this for a $25 app fee. go to your local county government agency ad start the process ASAP! Good luck!
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No - they're straightened out now :)
I kind of liked it better when they were jumbled up. Peekawho was 21 and TTC (kind of hard after tubal ligation and uterine ablation) and sk2006 was knocked up!! It made for some interesting reading.
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I have prayed about it and realize that being bitter is wrong. The important thing is the baby. I will dealing with him to God. He has a way of dealing with people, He always deals with me on things.
Hire a lawyer to fight for you and then sit back and try to enjoy the rest of this pregnancy.
Don't seek reveange, it will just make you bitter.
I would inform his parents after the baby is born, if you have a cordial relationship with them.
Do not be hateful, this man will always be your child's father and you will always have to deal with him.
I wish you strength, courage and health.
woah - the posts are linked to the wrong posters!
He helped decide to have this baby, and now that it's a reality, HE DOESN'T WANT IT????
Honey, CLEAN HIS PLOW FOR HIM!!! Find the very best lawyer you can. Even stick his ass for court costs and DNA testing, if necessary! What a jerk! Too hard on him? PLEASE! You aren't being nearly hard enough....
Good luck to you and your baby.
Planning for your baby's future is your whole world right now..and since your butthole of a BF doesnt seem to share this view, it looks hopeless that he'll change for the better once the baby actually arrives...I've seen lots of single moms raise up great kids all on their own..
i don't think you're too hard on him...hell, give him a good one on his behind and you still come up short of being hard...
yeah they're right.. go to the lawyer and get help on the support thing.. the child needs it financially.. about the emotional support.. ur baby will someday grow and will need a father figure to guide him/her.. but with your bf denying it, taking drugs, and treating u badly, i dont think the baby will grow as a good young boy/girl..
try to face it.. he was mean, he doesnt care, he doesnt give damn.. u deserve someone better... just thank god for the baby.. that's enough happiness for you..
good luck...
I agree with the previous poster to put your baby first. But if you're thinking in terms of child support, maybe talk to a lawyer and get some advice as to what your options are.