I havn't had an orgasm

[petite25]

I've only had sex twice but both times I have not had any orgasms.  Is this because i'm new at this or is it actually possible for someone to not be able to have orgasms!  

[WeMissYouDalin]

I had orgasms from sex alone before we got pregnant (then miscarried) and I can't seem to get one now...  I don't like clit stimulation, it doesn't do anything for me but I agree with marra315 and mommyof2boys35.

[mommyof2boys35]

I agree with the other posters lol!  I cannot have an orgasm from just intercourse alone, so we brought toys into the whole deal and that works well, maybe could try that?  

[marra315]

hi , it took me 7 years lol ! i agree clit stimulation is the key for most women, i have a lot of info on this as i work for a sex toy company now and i wish i had way back then . good luck x x

[dontknow22]

You could just not be not that into it since it is still new to you, try to relax more and really get into it. Dont think.  And make sure you feel aroused enough.  Women usually take much longer than men to become fully aroused.  Tell your partner you want or need more foreplay before the deed. But it is actually pretty common for women to not be able to orgasm without stimulation to their clit. My best firend says she cant have an orgasm without her or her partner playing with her clit. So you could try rubbing yourself during sex to see if that hightens your pleasure and can push you over the edge.