i am new to this site but some friends have told me about it so i thought id give it a try. here it goes, i have been married for about 10 years and we have 1 child and one on the way. my wife and i have never really had a good sexual relationship, i love sex and everything about it, and she hates sex and everthing about it. it wasnt like this when we first got together, it has just changed over the years. i have told her i love her no matter what and i want to be together, but i believe that because we have no sex life that it stresses our relationship in other areas, and because of that we fight over everything, we go weeks to months without talking to each other. we never talk about what we fight over either ( i want to because if there is something i can change to make things better i will try to do it, but she wants to never talk about any arguments, which then lead to more arguments because we do the same stuff over agian). she says very hurt full things to me when we fight like " im sorry your not as good as a father as you thought you were" and weeks later has never apoligized for it. even tho i know im a wonderfull father and i would do anything for my children im starting to think its just getting to much for me to handle anymore im just so stressed out with fighting and not having a relationship with my wife. but i just wish i could make it work !! any advice please