so you want people to tell you what you want to hear so YOU feel better? is it possible for her to have a miscarriage that soon after taking a pregnancy test...yes it is. a chemical pregnancy just happens as do miscarriages. they could takes hours, days or weeks to pass. if you are searching for sympathy for dumping your pregnant g/f who is sick...you're not going to get it here. and if she's given you proof that YES she was pregnant and then YES she did loose the baby why all the doubt? she's obviously going through a horrible time this year and you are just adding to it. did you know extra stress can cause a woman to loose a baby? quit trying to feel bad for yourself and start having some sympathy for this poor woman before karma comes back to bite you in the a$$.
Dude get over your self already. There are many women ttc and when they get a BFP only to turn around and lose the baby a day or two later it cuts them deep. Face it she was pregnant and then lost the baby a day after she found out. Did you goggle chemical pregnancy? Why does it bother you so much? All of us know the answer its bc you are and have been a big fat jerk to this women when she needed you the most. Do her a favor and exit out of her life at least give her a chance to heal herself from the hurt and pain that you caused. P.S. Most women that lie about being pregnant don't say the lost the baby the next day then actually go have an u/s (that costs plenty of money) to show that they were miscarrying and then bring home a Dr.'s note. Thats to much trouble for nothing, I have to wonder did you run your thoughts past your new gf and she is making you doubt your ex. Just a thought.
Seriously, this isn't healthy. If you have moved on, forget about it. Yes, women CAN have periods and still be pregnant. Yes, Dr. offices CAN call at 7 am but if you doubt it, call them for yourself if you are that stuck on finding out if she's lying or not.
What does your new GF think of all this? Does she know you are on here seeking advice about this situation? If so, what does she think about it?
"I guess i'm just trying to convince myself she's lying because its easier on me, i feel horrible. When we were together she used to get ill with an assortment of different symptoms so her friends didnt believe her illness. I did because her blood test results and urine samples are coming back abnormal and plus shes meant to be having an operation soon but i want to distance myself and forget about her and concentrate on my new girlfriend. I know im really horrible."
These are your words. Stop trying to convince yourself that she's lying.
Is she lying?
Is she not lying?
What does it matter?
You've already dumped her and took up with "someone else a few weeks later."
A bit soon after the break-up, I would say.
But isn't it a coincidence- Sunday the pregnancy test was taken, - positive. Monday she had a blood test, came on her period and by 7pm the doctors phone her to tell her there are limited amounts of hCG in her blood so its unlikely shes still pregnant because of how small the amounts are. What doctors lab rings at 7pm with blood test results of that morning???