Is she pregnanat? or not?

[Dstone1]

Hello all...i'm really really worried here.
Just yesterday I got this text from a girl who is saying she is two months late. understandably i am freaking out. I am NOT ready for a kid and neither is she. We had sex twice now and i've used a condom every time (some nights we did it twice but always protected with a new condom each and every time). I thought i was safe. It appeared that none of them broke I only ejaculated once in her and when I threw the condom out it did not appear to be broken and appeared to be containing sperm.

The weird thing is is that shes saying its totally not my problem and is "2 months late" but hasn't even bothered to get the test done yet.also, when she suggested that the condom may have broken i acknowledged that might be true, and also told her that it looked like it didn't break, but she immediately came back with some "micro hole" story or suggested the whole Pre *** story and how a "tiny amout of semen might have been in there" (even though I have never penetrated her without a condom on).  I just find it highly unlikely that shes pregnant. And I dont really know what to believe.

Another weird thing is that she had sex with me after her first missed period (our sex was far enough apart so its doubtful she hadnt noticed her lateness before our second time...we first had sex on feb.20th) ...who does that? she also told me shes had 8 partners before but now tells me "im the only guy in 6 months and the last one in two"

This girl used to be very caught up with me...she would text me every day all day and had slowed down recently, until last night when she out of the blue told me she was 2 months late. is she doing this to get my attention/affection?

-whats your take on this? Is she late due to some weird reason and overreacting?

-is she really pregnant? she is saying that if she is pregnant that "it will be taken care of" (i assume she will not have it)  

-why did she not get tested when she first missed? why did she have sex again when she knew she was late? (assuming her story is true)

-what do i do? I definitely need to tell her im not ready for this baby. I cant be a father right now. i'm monetarily unable and not emotionally ready. I feel like an ******* second guessing her like this. but this all seems a lil fishy to me...especially when she lives an hour away and i have not seen her since.

[Dstone1]

she says shes taking one now. ill have her send a pic. if she says its positive ill take her one.

[imanaddict]

The others are right, I highly doubt she is if she's still partying. She told you that she hasn't taken a test yet which I find odd because when a woman suspects she is pregnant, she usually runs to the store for a test and THEN tells the boyfriend what the results were, not the other way around.

Whatever you do, make her take the test with you there. If she's trying to pull one over on you then she may try other things to try and prove her story.

[Dstone1]

she took and and it came up negative! phew. now its just finding why shes late. lets hope its nothing serious

[specialmom]

Well, I hope it is nothing serious---------  but at this point, it is not your issue.  Congratulations and make sure to always use protection.  And she sounds a bit like a trouble maker, so move on for your own sanity!  good luck

[teko]

Its negative? Whew! Is right! Run the opposite direction or next time it will not be negative.

[Dstone1]

agreed teko! i want to thank you all for listening to my ramblings these last days