Girl pretending to be pregnant?

[Helpaguyout7]

All right, I would just really love to have a few second opinions on a subject I feel I really can't talk about around friends/family. So here is my story. I went out with a girl for one night and I ended up staying over her house. We didn't have sex the first night and she seemed like a pretty cool girl. Next day, I ended up staying over again because of a massive snowstorm. Needless to say, I had a lot to drink and I am on anti-anxiety meds (another reason this is bothering me so much!) Anyhow, one thing led to another and she comes into the room wearing heels and lingerie, decked out like you wouldn't believe. Me being a man, I obliged at what she was getting at and went to put on the condom only to have her tell me she is allergic to latex so i washed my hands, came back and we did it. Now, here is where it gets fun because It is severely hard for me to ejaculate while on anxiety meds and on top of that, drinking heavily makes it impossible for me to stay hard for longer of five minutes at a time. She was on on birth control and embarrassing for me to say but I did not *** and actually ended up getting one look at her **** which sagged out of the bra and looked disgusting and I went soft WITHOUT cumming whatsoever. Before this time, I did not jack off or anything whatsoever as long as two days beforehand and urinated frequently with how much I drank so there was no way sperm was in the pipe.

To make a long story short, she is flat out crazy, like legit and her true colors shown after that and she went nuts because she couldn't keep me hard yada yada and I assured her it was because of the alcohol and we ended up going back to sleep only to have her wake up screaming and crying and then her asking every five minutes what was I thinking about and if I was going to leave and not call again.

So, now here I am, about a month later and she textes me, not calls me, saying she is a week late. Before this she was texting me non stop poetry saying how i was a dream come true blah blah blah, then silence for a few weeks and then the whopper about her being a week late. I told her to get a pregnancy test and she she said not now because she was going to florida on vacation for a week and she would get one when she got back.

So my question is, being a girl, if you knew you might be pregnant, wouldn't you want to find out instead of waiting for so long? On top of this, I try calling and she doesn't pick up, only textes me back. I'm trying to be nice to her saying we are both responsible and I'll be there for her and all she does is text back saying she has no need for angry emotional boys in her life and I'll never ever know if she was pregnant or not and to get over myself. HUH???
Anyway, my reason tells me she is lying trying to get back at me somehow but my anxiety just won't let up about it! I just need some freakin peace so please, just let me know what you all think of this story for some second opinions. Thanks, my head would appreciate it.

[Helpaguyout7]

Thanks so much everyone for your replies, it's mostly just my anxiety going out of whack but reading your replies have calmed me down greatly. I just called my service provider and had her number blocked so now I can finally get me some sleep!

[Carly1306]

I agree with everyone else, I don't believe for one second she is pregnant by you.
Get her out of your life, don't reply to any more texts from her...she is not worth the effort or the anxiety!!

[specialmom]

Agree agree agree.   Don't answer any texts. Block her if you can.  If she is indeed pregnant and has a baby, she can take you to court to prove paternity.  

I think picturing the bunny boiling is a pretty good way to stay out of this situation in the future.  Good one, rockrose!


Okay, not to add to your anxiety.  Condoms protect against more than pregnancy.  

[thehitman357]

She probably is not pregnant, but 100% drama. Blow her off. If she is pregnant, deal with the situation.  However, I would not worry too much about it right now.

[Helpaguyout7]

Thanks for your opinion Rockrose, just hearing somebody else's opinion based on the story already makes me feel better. I've had this pent up inside all week and this is the first time anything like this has every happened to me. I just needed to share it with someone even if it is online. Trust me, I'm a guy who learns his lessons, even if it is the hard way. No worries, I won't be returning to this girl, I think she knew this, hence her claim out of nowhere. I really do feel bad for her but jeesh, a guy can only be nice for so long I guess.

[RockRose]

Every so often,  guys post on this site with your exact same story.  In some cases,  after finding out the woman wasn't pregnant (or the woman stated she got an abortion) they had another go at her and she stated again that she was pregnant.

From your description I think there's a zero percent chance she's pregnant and about a 100% chance that she's diagnosably mentally ill.  

In the future,  don't have sex with her again and don't have sex with girls you don't know.  

In the meantime watch Fatal Attraction.  She could be boiling your bunny.