I agree with other posters... Especially after a rape situation, I would not rush into such a thing.
I would take a break from sex for a while and work on the relationship--if he is the one--he will be the one even when there is no sex involved.
you may not like my ans but it sounds like having sex is the only thing there is but there is more to love than sex with each one why dont you take it easy and date but try to abstain for awhile you may find that he is not as great as you make him out to be luck jo
Yeah. Rape situation....=/ Only 1 stitch tho.