Here is a link.
http://www.cchers.org/cap/about.html
Thanks i will look into itit
If all he wants is to control you, run and don't look back. One of the other posters did a good thing in mentioning the Power and Control Wheel, look it up online and read the stuff in it. If it sounds all too familiar, time to take a walk.
On the other hand, just wanting a child is not by itself a power issue, it is a desire to be a dad. Or, depending on the guy, it might be (a friend of mine in an awful, bullying marriage was talked into having four kids by him, and that was largely so she would not leave. She had a lot more going for her than he did, and this was the way he kept hold of her). You're the one with the evidence on this question.