I think Tick hit it right on the head. You need to not date anyone for a bit. Otherwise, you are just finding "someone" to be with rather than the right one. I know marriage is high on your mind but you need to wait a bit with no man in your life to clear your thinking. Good luck
thank u very much for answer. it was helping to me. and giving confidence....
It is a wonderful problem to have, that so many men would like to marry you, but if their family can suddenly stop things by saying it is not possible, they might not be that serious when they propose. (They always have an "out," so they can say whatever they want.)
In any case, as ticked suggests, concentrate on your studies, there will clearly be men aplenty for you, you are not obligated to rush now.
You need to break it off with the one you are with and not go back to the other one and take a break. There are more men out their that will love you the way you want to be loved. For someone to say that you are not looking good and he proposed to you just prior, that is mean. Can you imagine what else he would say later on in life if that is how he is treating you now?
Focus on your school and forget about the boys until you are done.