The man in my life works away from home in the UK and abroad a lot, we only see each other as and when he is free, which is rarely, (we have known each other for 18 months) when he phones me usually every two weeks all he wants is phone sex, I told him I want him by me, but he says he will when he can, so we again have phone sex. I dont want to loose him, but am I wasting my time waiting.???? Should I call it a day????
I think you should be living life each and every day. I would love for you to have a man who is 'really' in your life and will be there to do things with you, have real sex vs. phone sex, makes you feel loved on a regular basis. All of the things that go with a day to day relationship. It has been 18 months and I just don't think this is going to change.
So, I feel so bad saying that. But-------- I think you have a happy ending ahead of you with someone else. good luck