Should I Worry?

[Kitty_110807]

well first off me and my boyfriend have been going out for a pretty long time now and he is 2 years younger than me. he is 16 and I am 18. our love for eachother is very strong. when I went to his house on friday, something was very different. I had gotten some sad news. he told me that he might be moving with his mom to maryland. i started crying because I love him so much and I had lost a lot of people and he is the last person I want to loose. So i asked him if he wanted to move with her and he said he doesnt. I dont know what im going to do without him???? I have never felt this way about anybody before. I mean sure we get into arguements but no relationship is perfect. Im sure this is the person I want to be with. & then he is going through so much stuff right now. but I guess he dont know how to handle it. first court, then moving then me being pregnant[well @ least i thought i was] but anyways he said he doesnt want me to raise our child alone I said I wont because we'll be a family together. but he said that how if he's moving and then we got into a big fight. and he started saying he doesnt love me. when i know he does, because I can feel it. We've been through so much together. I put up with all his bulls*** and I told him no other girl would still be here after all we've been through. they would have left but im still here. I could of left friday when he had our fight I thought it was the end of us....but I hoped it wouldnt be....so he stopped me from leaving....he didnt really apologize to me just yet....but he doesnt want me with somebody else....same goes for me.....but after friday had happened he didnt say i love you....and still hasnt and its not thursday....i know he loves me and he knows he loves me too.....i know how he is when he gets mad....he always says stuff he doesnt mean.....but still i need to hear him say i love you and im sorry.....everybody says that he is going through a lot and he is so young that he dont know how to deal with it.....and they told me he loves me but why still act like he doesnt when i know he does? it's like ever since i told him about me probably being pregnant [which im not thank God!] he started acting weird.....what do i do? i miss him so much and i miss my hugs and kisses and etc. do i worry or not? and yes by the way we're still together......i just want to go back not worrying about nothing and just go back to loving eachother again.....i cant sleep at nite knowing we had a bad arguement =0[ i need to hear his voice and i want him to tell me that he's sorry and that he does love me......

[GEORGIE323]

i kind of understand you i was with my girlfriend for two years and she told me that she was gonna move i was really in love with her and i didnt want to loose her  but then i thought about it and there was nothing i could do she had to move with her family because she was to young and couldnt stay without her family its been a year already since she moved the first months were kind of hard but i did get over it.... i dont know if hes gonna move or not but if it comes down to that then try to understand him... it is gonna be hard but you will get through it... good luck    georgie

[momagain59]

Please let this kid move on with his Mom. It sounds as if you are wanting more out of this relationship than he does. Look for an older guy that can offer you what you are looking for.

[jo929]

remember he is a minor, and you are considered a grownup, and i think the law may frown on an older person and say that you have contributed to the delinquency of a minor    jo

[MrsOckert]

You keep saying why won't he say I love you when I know he does?  Sweetie, has it occurred to you that he really doesn't?  Many times we women get involved in relationships with people and we see them through our eyes.  We project our hopes, wishes and dreams on them when they really aren't the way we have built them up in our mind.

At 16 this young man is no more able to say I will take care of you forever than to get a job in outer space.  It's just not possible.  It's hard enough these days and without an education he'd be lucky to get a job in fast food.  That's not enough to support a family on.

Let him go.

[jo929]

It would be very hard for a 16 year old boy to find a job, and pay rent and buy food and to be a father at 16, just thank your lucky stars you are not PG and pleses do not get pg at this time,
This young man needs time to grow, and sow his wild oats, and to get an education so that he can get a decent job. What has happened to your common sense, you know that he is to young to take on all of these resposibilities at his age, and what about you have you an education?
If you care about him ,Let him go, and in time he may come back, young love is so hard, but wait for your true love. and i hate to be so harsh but he is to young to know what real love is. if you care let him finish his education, and grow some before you try to get him to stay. How did you expect him to support you, what was the plan, you know you cant live with the family forever plus the parent has to sign ther marriage license ,He probably knows he cant handle all of this and is afraid to tell you, so let him go if you care, and tell him to get an education and do what has to be done, do not try to tie him to you at this age, I know that it is hard on youm but it will make you a better person for it, and he will think more of you for it luck  jo