Should I go out with my sister's crush?

[xxsweetsimplicityxx]

Ok.. My sister Liz has a guy friend named Rand that's totally been crushing on her, but she treats him like ****. I felt sooooo bad for him that she kept saying she only wanted to be friends, then never talking to him for 3 weeks straight. Well, I started IM'ing him and we got to be really close friends. Now he's starting to fall for me! Heres the twist: My sister's starting to "love" him now. I really dont know what to do. I love Rand, but I dont want my sister to call me her BF stealer! What do I do?

[PlateletGal]

Back off right now and wait and see what happens. If your sister starts to reject him again (and I mean... if they don't go out at all but keep playing games), then go for it.

[anxiousmomtobe?]

Lots of guys in the world, only a limited amount of sisters.  Run from him.

[sk2006a]

I don't know how old you and your sister are, but I cannot imagine damaging your relationship with your sister over a potential boyfriend.  She's your sister forever.

[Trialanderror]

Number one: never fish in the same pond as family members, best friends or co-workers. Number two: seems that your sister has been playing hard-to-get and is now envious. Make her and yourself aware that in the end it is and was his decision to be with you. I assume that your sister and Rand were not intimate before, so if she rejected him the whole time, you do not really have to feel guilty. Except for number one.