please help with this guy

[0075417]

okay so about about over a month ago, I started talking to a guy from a dating site.  He texted me everyday from like when he got up till he went to bed.  Finally like two weeks ago we met since I just moved here.  I moved in the mountains and he lives an hour away so I stayed over night.  Nothing happened and it was crazy fun.  He text me the next day and was wanting sex and stuff.  Just seems like he moves fast.  Anyways I said no.  He was fine with that.  But it seems like ever since I moved here he doesn't talk to me that much and that was a month ago.  He only texts when I text him.  Anyways he said he's to busy to hangout and works all the time.  I told him tell me the truth and i'll leave you alone this week and he said he likes me.  He said he has saturday and sunday off and we would hangout soon.  I told him I was leaving it up to him.  Well its sunday and have got no text.  He was super sweet when we hungout.  I don't get it.  Should I text him and say something, or just move on.

[penswriter]

Teko nailed it on the head. He wanted in  your pants, you said no and he's moved on.

[specialmom]

I think you had posted this story two times before---------  anyway, I think that you have your answer.  He seems to be saying to move on by not texting you.  I'm sorry, I"m sure that hurts your feeings.  I hope that you meet someone that moves at your pace.  good luck

[teko]

So in the beginning he was obsessed. Texting someone all day and night to the exclusion of anything else in their lives is obsessed. Then you met him, hung out, You said no to sex and since then it all fell apart? Yep, he is not that into you and you need to move on. He wants a boy toy not a relationship. Your best to get on with your own life.

[ammanda]

Honestly, meeting guys on the internet is always iffy.  Seems like he just wanted sex. but im not completley 100 % sure.  but sounds like hes very good at sweet talking. id prolly just stop texting him and let him make the first move, if he doesnt then jsut move on.  your gonna get hurt by putting yourself out there like that.  Good luck