The liar

[mama_07]

Ok so I was with this guy for roughly four years, we were so in love had a baby just super happy. We started ti struggle so we moved in mith my mom and he decided to take up a second job as a bouncer at a local bar! I have complete trust in him and we were totally fine for a while then just all of a sudden he was coming home at crazy hours or not at all and going out wiht single frineds and lying like crazy. we took a lil break he came back after a week and we were good then the next weekend he did it again and i had just had enough!!!!! its been a month and a half after the break up and he has been already with another girl since like the frist week we were apart!!!! Im so sad i still love him a dnwant tobe with him and work it out but he is one minute i love the next i dont??? Advice?

[mami1323]

Oh I don't know if you have a daugther, I don't know where I got that from, you said you had a baby.  I guess I assumed it was a girl.  Sorry if it wasn't.

[mami1323]

I agree, I believe he started to see this girl before you split, and wanted a break because he was torn between you and her.  I think he doesn't really deserve your love and is completely immature.  I can't believe you have a child with him and this is how he acts.  If I were you, I would get angry, through anger we gain some strength.  Tell yourself that you are better then this and make yourself a life with your daughter.  If he wants to be part of her life, then fine, but if doesn't then you will be ok to do it on your own.  You are a mother first and foremost, mothers are able to lift cars off of their children's bodies if they had to, you certainly can get through this.  Good luck.

[treazzure007]

there are too many diseases out here now to share a man.  im too selfish to share a man.  there are too many men out here to have to share one.  

i don't think it's okay what he did or how he's treating you and i think you should leave from this mess w/ your head high and some dignity about yourself.  i would like to see you decide you're too good for all of this

[Luckejem]

Let him go. Chances are he was seeing this new girl while he was with you. It sounds lie he needs to work through some things and he needs to do this on his own, as a man. He needs to make the decision of what it's important to him, as right now, he is unsure. You, on the other hand, stand on your own two feet without him, make a life for you and your baby. Chances are, when he sees that you are making it on your own he may want to come back. It's an ego thing. he did this not you, and a man like that, you don't need. Let her  have him, he will do the same to her. Plus, you have his child, he will always be a part of you, is okay to love him. But, is also okay to love him from far away...
Hope I helped