Umm, "when HE'S ready HE will LET YOU know"...?????? I really am not trying to be rude here, or blo a gasket, but it seems quite "obvious" that you're NOT "the love of your life's love of HIS LIFE!! Sounds to me like you're trying to be something to him that he apparently doesn't want you to be to him. YOU dont owe him any explanation PERIOD!!! Forget about him, you need to REVOLVE YOUR LIFE AROUND YOUR BABY NOW!!! U DIDNT FIT IN HIS LIFE BEFORE, YOU & YOUR CHILD WILL SURELY NOT FIT, DONT PUT "YOUR" child in an "un-necessary situation"...you never know, this person might be jealous of the fact that now u are not just "doting/catering" just to HIM only now. That baby is YOUR MAIN FOCUS, you focused on someone long enuff, that didnt appreciate you anyway(from the sound of it) its a clean break, keep it that way, dont take a chance that doesnt have to be taken. He's NOT YOUR BABYS FATHER. THATS THE RELATIONSHIP YOU NEED TO FOCUS ON!!! USE UR HEAD GIRL, MISERY LOVES COMPANY, DONT SUBJECT THAT BABY TO SOMETHING THAT DOESNT HAVE TO BE. BE HAPPY, DOTE ON YOUR PRECIOUS BUNDLE SOON TO BE HERE, THATS UR LIFE NOW, FOCUS, FOCUS, FOCUS!!!! YOU HAVE LOST NOTHING!!! YOUR FRIEND HAS THO, HE LOST HIS MAID! 30? FIRST BABY!! ENJOY!! UR A FOOL IF YOU CHOOSE TO CONTINUE TO WEAR YOURSELF OUT TRYING TO PLEASE SOMEONE THAT YOU HAVE YET TO PLEASE ANYWAY! BE TRUE & FAIR TO URSELF & UR BABY, THERE IS A NEW #1 IN UR LIFE, FOCUS ON THAT. UN-NECESSARY CRAP IS JUST THAT, ....NOT NECESSARY!!! GOOD LUCK TO U, YOUR CHILD & YOUR CHILDS FATHER, I'LL PRAY FOR THE 3 OF U, THAT HES ECSTATIC @ HIS BABY, AND HONORED TO SHARE THIS BEAUTIFUL EXPERIENCE WITH YOU!!!!!!!! & BE A GOOD FATHER TO HIS CHILD, THATS YOUR FOCUS, NO1 ELSE MATTERS.!!!!
U should b up front&honest with him.That being said why r his reasons for continuing to break things off with u?
I am trying to understand the dynamics here, has the father of the child been told about the baby, does he want to be with you and take responsibility for his child ?