Thinks my boyfriend is addicted to sex!!!

Question

My bf and I have been together for almost a year! We have a good relationship, BUT I think he may be addicted to sex. Our sex life is fun&exciting! During this summer we had sex 4 times out the week...cus we had more time cus we were done w school. Now, that school has started up&we both work we really only see each on weekends.

Lately he seems to make lil comments about us not having a lot sex and he even gets mad when I come on my periods during the weekend cus clearly that means no sex. I mean HELLO I can't control when my peiord comes so its no need for him to get pissed over it.

Now it makes me feel bad when he says stuff like that & reacts in a manner like that. Makes me feel like he just wants to be around me for sex instead of us just being able to chill sometimes on weekends. I told him how his comments make me fill and he said he isn't trying to come off like that, but he misses me a lot during the week & he looks forward to when we can make love and that I'm being unnecessary about this situation.

Maybe I am being unnecessary...what do u all think I should do? His comments constantly referring to sex hurt my feelings cus I don't wanna be looked at as his sex toy on the weekends.

britt_brat87 · Answer

Well, all of u guys seem to think the same thing! That its not anything to worry about. So I won't worry too much. Thanx!!

lovinlyfe06 · Answer

dont feel to bad, I understand everyone has their needs but I kinda feel the same way you do, my hubby and I have sex 2-3x's a DAY(everyday)!!!! most times its great but sometimes i walk in the door after getting off work from an 8hr shift and i dont feel like it alot of times.... my periods are abnormal right now(an im not pregnant,yet, surprisingly, tho i am trying)... everything will work out just talk more...

perch101 · Answer

Just wanted to say that a guy who gets angry at you because you have your period? Not a good sign for that guy.
Also I disagree with andree who says 4 times a week is too much - because every couple is different - 4 times a week is right for some - 4 times a month right for others, and some more or less that that. I don't think there are any 'right' or 'wrong' amount of times because were all different.

Crystalgodess · Answer

Its normal, he doesn't know but hes suffering from sex w/draws. He's use to always having sex to only sometimes. It has nothing to do w/u its all him. He does miss you, but understand hes a GUY all they think about is sex lol. When things get back to your old school schedule everything will fall back into place. Mention this to him, physiologically mentioning this to him will mentally make him realize his feelings. Its like HELLO, light bulb

andre1111 · Answer

maybe he is.... maybe not , remember we men have needs.......my girlfriend ..i love her ....she loves me. we have relations 1 time a week and is something beautiful ..and you,...4 times a week!!!!! you may be in love ,but that is too much . im expressing my opinion maybe im wrong ..we men that are in love we have the same fears as the women have, only we expressed them in more manly way, with anger and bad coments are you in love with him? ..is he in love with you?maybe he is affraid that you may leave(dont ever tell him this)you may start to like someone else...this is the worst thing i willsay for now but sometimes we need sex to release the tension from work,,stress etc..or maybe youre a hottie that he cant ressist you......and he still doesent believe that he has someone like you.....if you would tell a little more about his age ,,how many girlfriends he had before you...are you his first girlfriend ..why did he break up with the other ones...is he a good looking man..does he keep his promises .......is he a reliable man..does he do other things that upset you..is he serious about your relation or he just want to have fun with you..its you who should answer this questions by yourself not him ...so in short words his personality is the key of his behavior......