I meant that I felt like she had no answers for me sry..
I have gone the rout of seeing a therapist twice..one said nothing and felt like she had no answers for me and the other one didn't work out because I decided To move back to my home and just tough it out. I really want to just get over everything on my own so I feel strong. I know I just need a job then I can work on getting a car and drive myself to church which always makes me feel great and the career I have in mind is doing hair because I'm really really good at it and its the only talent I have that I could suceded in and love my job everyday! I have already did my fafsa and found my dream college too. It's just the job thing I need to get on.
It makes me think of the 'chicken and egg' thing - are you depressed because you have no job or car or motivation - or do you have no job/car/motivation because you are depressed. Who knows.....!
As RR asked - do you have any job prospects? Do you have any idea of a career you'd be intrested in? You could go to University (thats what we call it here - I think you call it colledge? I could have that wrong lol).
Even if you don't know what career you want to do yet - any job in the interim will help get you out of this rut and bring some money in to save for a car.... but I still think you should see your doctor to have a chat how you're feeling in case it's clinical......
Good luck!
Do you have any prospects of getting a car and a job? Sitting around doing nothing for a year will put you into a deep depression.
Wow perch 101 thank you so much for your advice(:
Hi Elephant, have you ever seen a professional about possibly being clinically depressed? If not, it would be a good idea to see someone to be assessed. I saw your other post too where you describe always feeling depressed and angry.
No - having a car, a job or seeing your boyfriend 24/7 will not make you happy. It may make you temporarily happier for a little while, but happiness comes from within. You need to find out what is making you depressed and angry, and then address those issues - otherwiese unfortunatley - they will always eventually come to the surfac and affect your life negitively.
Also, a relationship where you have to spend 24/7 together - and if you don't you become angry - is not healthy and cannot last long term. It is too much pressure. You need to have a healthy balance where you enjoy spending time with your boyfriend - but are also able to enjoy time apart - you with your friends and/or doing things you enjoy and same for him.
I do feel you would benefit in seeing a doctor and getting assessed - the feelings you describe - being depressed, angry and unmotivated could all be something like a clinical depression, and or/ a hormonal or seretonin imbalance which could be treated. The cutting in your past could have been a symptom of this too.
Best wishes.