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What can i do to helo sexual activity?
Boyfriend and I have been together for 8 months now. We moved in together three months ago. Ever since we moved in, our sexual activity has decreased gradually. He says his sex drive is just off now. But before we moved in, we had sex every time we saw each other. He rejects me when I try to have sex with him. Its now making me feel less of myself because he isn't having sex with me and is rejecting me. Idk what else to do to help. Anyone have any suggestions please don't hesitate to let me know. Thank you.
Not sure about the sex drive off now story. He knows what's going on. Yall should talk or maybe counseling.
Sounds to me like he is not ready for a living together situation. Maybe is commitment phobic. Like the other said. Maybe cut your losses now rather than later
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Ugh. Sorry to hear. I think you need to have a heart to heart and tell him you didn't sign on for a sexless relationship. Intimacy is part of a relationship and he needs to get to the bottom of what is going on OR this relationship is in jeopardy. 8 months is not long at all (been with my husband for almost two decades . . . ) and I'd cut your losses sooner rather than later if an active sex life with your partner is a deal breaker for you. For some, it isn't. This is for you to decide. good luck sweetie
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