Aa
Aa
A
A
A
Close
Avatar universal

What do you guys think?

My husband has had this best friend since he was a kid. Well me and the girl hate each other because she can't stand the fact he is MINE and loves me and gives me all his time and completely forgot about her because of me so he dropped her for me because she was disrespecting the **** out of me and it wasn't cool at all. A year and half later all a sudden she finds his fb he just made a couple days back. I couldn't understand the message because it was In Spanish. She lives in New Jersey and I'm wondering how in the hell did she find him ! I know he can't be still speaking to her because he doesn't even have anywhere to stay really and he's a hard working man he works so hard for me and our babygirl. Is this just a coincidence? I mean he just made the fb two days ago and it's not even his real name it's his middle name as the profile so how did she find him.. What do you ladies think do you think he has been talking to her or just a coincidence I don't wanna assume >.<
17 Responses
Sort by: Helpful Oldest Newest
Avatar universal
They may have been talking.. And they have plenty of translation sites for free. I would copy and paste and have the computer translate it for me. Good luck
Helpful - 0
Avatar universal
My boyfriend is Spanish, if you want you can send send whatever you'd like translated and he can tell you what it means.
Helpful - 0
8004667 tn?1408302108
U should ask him about it , and if u still think theres something else going on u should get someone to translate the message lol thats what i would do ..
Helpful - 0
Avatar universal
^Lol i wanna know too
Helpful - 0
Avatar universal
Was the message bad ? Lol
Helpful - 0
Avatar universal
Sounds like my story some girls cant stand the fact that he is not theirs but I would just ask
Helpful - 0
Avatar universal
Ynnejlove : I message you thanks so much :)
Helpful - 0
9399295 tn?1403752593
Im salvadorian I speak spanish very well I can translate the msj if you want  .. post it on here or send me a msj .. THATS IF YOU WANT .. im willing to help
Helpful - 0
Avatar universal
Thanks girls ! He has no mutual friends with her tho that's the thing her page is so private because nobody knows her and idk why but google won't translate half of these words ! can't ask till I see him later tonight and I don't wanna be paranoid but you guys are right probably :/
Helpful - 0
9121436 tn?1407979502
Also if he added people who are friends with her she would see this profile pop up. I don't think he would give her his facebook. Men are sneaky but that would just be stupid.
Helpful - 0
9938472 tn?1409590567
Men*
Helpful - 0
9938472 tn?1409590567
Mean can be sneaky which is crazy but I think you should simply ask snd if he hesitates about it then you know.
Helpful - 0
9121436 tn?1407979502
My husband has a girl he dated when he was like 16 and she sends a friend equestrian every 6 months. lol She also has had her friends call his grandmother repeatedpu, added his sister, sent him messages, and ect. It's weird. Mind you I have been with my husband sense he was seventeen and he is now 27. lol Don't worry about it. But if you are still concerned you can copy and paste the message into an online translate to see what she is saying. It was the only way I passed french. :)
Helpful - 0
9923140 tn?1407723429
Maybe she knows his middle name sense they have been friends sense they were kids. So maybe she was looking for him and found him. Or if they have mutual friends, that can be away to come across from him. Don't assume anything ask him.
Helpful - 0
8856671 tn?1404143983
Idk how much fb has changed since I deleted mine but it used to recommend people you know by common friends. That could be it.
Helpful - 0
7408946 tn?1405998035
I'd think that he has contact with her ...just being honest
Helpful - 0
8528341 tn?1405833640
I'd ask him about it. That's the only way you will know for sure.
Helpful - 0
Have an Answer?

You are reading content posted in the Relationships Community

Top Relationships Answerers
13167 tn?1327194124
Austin, TX
3060903 tn?1398565123
Other
Learn About Top Answerers
Didn't find the answer you were looking for?
Ask a question
Popular Resources
How do you keep things safer between the sheets? We explore your options.
Can HIV be transmitted through this sexual activity? Dr. Jose Gonzalez-Garcia answers this commonly-asked question.
A list of national and international resources and hotlines to help connect you to needed health and medical services.
Herpes sores blister, then burst, scab and heal.
Herpes spreads by oral, vaginal and anal sex.
STIs are the most common cause of genital sores.