about ready to cuss out bd sister

[6242014]

So I just had my Lil peanut 3 weeks ago. Every time she see baby she wants to take him with her. She has a 3 year old who is past bad she is terrible and she don't give her no type of punishment and she also 3 months pregnant on her second.  She dont even have her own daughter she quick to leave her with any and everybody because she so bad. How you gone want somebody else kid if you dont even have your own your mom or aunt always do. I keep telling her I'm not comfortable with leaving my baby unless its with my mom he not even a month old and she quickvto say well he got other family members ( I understand that ) and we can watch him and call her self whispering to my son and say im acting like a Lil ***** . okay coo. So one day I was over my bd mom house with him eating about to drop him off we getting ready to go and he goes get the baby and he comes out and said his sister said can I come back. I told get no because I was going to get my hair done on other side of town so she tells me well I'm gone drop him off and I said no because I'm not about to look all over town for my son and I don't trust your daughter around my baby. ( that Lil girl will try to pick him up on her own do anything she's that bad) so she let her daughter hold him for a Lil bit before we left and when his sister was trying to put him in the car seat ( the car seat was on the couch) get daughter was hanging on bd sister arm and grabbing my baby feet wasn't on the ground hollering no she want too hold him. And **** like that she wasn't me to leave my son. No im fed up I'm ready to just snap off on her am I wrong for feeling any type of way when I dont leave him with her or let her get him I'm a ***** or I'm acting Like he don't have other family members. IDC its my baby and u have the right to say if I'm gone let someone get my baby..... Am I wrong????? Sorry for long post in pissed

[YasmineSimone]

Oh goshh, I haven't even had my baby yet but my bd's siblings LOVES kids, but they are all so bad and not too clean. I can feel that I'm gonna have those problems, so I'm just preparing myself. I know that I'm gonna be very overprotective, but so what! Lol...

[specialmom]

Hi there.  I'm big on toning down the drama in life.  it's usually not helpful.  So, I wouldn't have a big fight with her.  Instead, see this for what it is.  She's interested in your child which is wonderful!  Having other people love and dote on your kid is a NICE thing for your baby.  They are bonding and that bond can be a really great relationship your child's whole life.  

Then as the mama, you know that you are so special to your baby that he will never have or want another!!  

I think it is fair to say that you talked to your pediatrician and that your pedi thinks that when it comes to other kids there must be firm rules.  That no child is allowed to try to pick up the baby or give too tight of hugs.  That other kids must always be supervised when with the baby and those are your rules  now.  Just lay them out there.  Don't say them in a rude way but just as facts.  

If she can't live by those rules, then you just become less available to her.  Don't be around her as much.  

Honey, she could think she's being helpful to you by offering to watch your baby.  Is that a possibility at all???  

[Msdollie]

Your not wrong at all I would be the same way.. Be protective over your child it's a moms instinct and it's obvious your baby daddy's niece is bad bc she has no good parenting.. she has no business holding him on her own he's still so small.. anyway I hope u get the situation under control with your bds sister.. Goodluck :)

[ShawnelleJohn]

You are not wrong at all!!!! My sister is the same way she does terrible things to her daughter and other people children yet she see me pregnant and want another child so selfish and unfair

[LadyBeeley]

Nope. Stand your ground. Your child is yours to protect and in the end NOBODY gets a say except you.