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petty drama
So when I post on Fb I tagg my bf/bd in my post like pics of my belly or we watching the game just lil stuff so the other day his bm sent him a pic of his daughter the put it on Fb n tagged him n his mom ... He showed me n was like she tagged me to be petty cause in all our three yrs she's never tagged me in anything .... Why is she so dead set on making me upset which it didn't work cause I'm not Tripping over a pic of his kid I just don't get why she trying so hard to get to me
I kind of give up here. I took the time to reread through the thread and you clearly say she took the time to delete your comment.
But I agree, facebook has done some real damage to a lot of people.
But I agree, facebook has done some real damage to a lot of people.
I have thoroughly read what you've posted. Seems like most of your focus is on this ex and the drama between you two. I think that pretty much sums up your latest posts.
You and this ex need to pull this nonsense to REST. This behavior isn't mature or becoming for mothers.
When these babies come you definitely won't have time for all this drama, so I would recommend you end this NOW.
You and this ex need to pull this nonsense to REST. This behavior isn't mature or becoming for mothers.
When these babies come you definitely won't have time for all this drama, so I would recommend you end this NOW.
Here's the issue: don't make facebook so important in your life. Stop acting like anything that is posted on there has anything to do with anything because it does not. Just stop feeding into all of this immature high school drama about who posted what on whose picture or liked whoever's whatever. Enough, because it just doesn't matter in life and you should stop thinking about it so much. It seriously means nothing and you and all of your friends and people around you need to quit making it something and using it to try to get under people's skin. That's the most juvenile thing a person can do. Don't be one of those immature people! Grow up and be a solid parent to your kids because at the end of the day, that is five million times more important than any lame Facebook drama.
Can delete ... I just honestly thought the pic was cute ... I didn't need her to know I saw it n it didn't bother cause she knows I can see it
Pk I went on his page n she posted it on his page so by her making the post she can't delete comments he can only delete the post which he wanted to do but I stopped him n told him that's our kid who cares if she did it to be petty f her if I go on her page I can't see or post on her page cause I have not accepted her friend request .. Me posting on his page say it was cute ... The comment on her about her needing to grow up was not put on fb what so ever or else it would be me posting on Fb about thus n not here ... I was gossiping on here about why she would tell ppl I Dont like her kid n don't want her around when in fact I have more pictures of her kid on my page then the both of them put together
If I wanted drama I would be on Fb going on about thus instead of gossiping to u all this is pur gossip the only person who has a problem with her posting on his page is him n its not so much a problem he just felt she was being petty cause she has never done so that's all n I call it petty drama cause she delete my comment but Hus mom is the one who told me what she said about me not liking her kid or wanting her around
If I wanted drama I would be on Fb going on about thus instead of gossiping to u all this is pur gossip the only person who has a problem with her posting on his page is him n its not so much a problem he just felt she was being petty cause she has never done so that's all n I call it petty drama cause she delete my comment but Hus mom is the one who told me what she said about me not liking her kid or wanting her around
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Yes, that is why I commented as I did. How can she delete things on your boyfriends page such as comments made by other people.
It just sounds like a very sticky situation. I can see wanting to comment about the child but what your post was actually about is that you think her posting with your boyfriends name and her mother's name was somehow a stab or done to bug you.
I don't get that. You are reading too much into things and that is the petty stuff. That is the stuff I wouldn't get involved in. So, did you innocently post or were you also trying to 'show' her that you saw she used YOUR boyfriends name and that she doesn't bother you? Let's be honest here.
So, that is what I reacted to and why I wrote what I did. I just don't get it. I do think you don't want so much drama in your life but you are going to have to fight getting involved in these moments. Give the ex girlfriend the benefit of the doubt and just move on. good luck
It just sounds like a very sticky situation. I can see wanting to comment about the child but what your post was actually about is that you think her posting with your boyfriends name and her mother's name was somehow a stab or done to bug you.
I don't get that. You are reading too much into things and that is the petty stuff. That is the stuff I wouldn't get involved in. So, did you innocently post or were you also trying to 'show' her that you saw she used YOUR boyfriends name and that she doesn't bother you? Let's be honest here.
So, that is what I reacted to and why I wrote what I did. I just don't get it. I do think you don't want so much drama in your life but you are going to have to fight getting involved in these moments. Give the ex girlfriend the benefit of the doubt and just move on. good luck
Twins, honestly, it's very hard to tell what you are talking about.
How did she delete a comment you made on your boyfriend's page?
How did she delete a comment you made on your boyfriend's page?
N where n when did I say I posted on GWR page for her to grow up I said im just like grow up as in me thinking that you guys don't read on interpret well either or maybe its the way I wrote it but I only said my stinka butt so cute n my bd felt some way about her posting it not me I clearly stated I'm Not tripping over a picture of his daughter cause I post pics of her too that's my baby cakes....
So it's wrong to say that my srinka Butt is cute I see nothing wrong with that ... It was not on her page I was on his page her n I aren't friends on Fb ...
I commented on a pic of my step kid that was on my bf Fb page
Sometimes I honestly feel u guys don't read the post or comments ..
Sometimes I honestly feel u guys don't read the post or comments ..
Look at this as a learning opportunity. When he leaves you and gets some other woman pregnant, you'll know the stuff to do to get under her skin.
This always sounds SO petty and SO high schoolish to me - which would be okay, I suppose, 'cept there are so many Babies involved in all this petty, silly drama.
So agree with Chima, SpecialMom and NurseGirl!!
So agree with Chima, SpecialMom and NurseGirl!!
Petty drama is right, and you're fueling it just as much as she is. For you to make a comment on her post of a picture of your stepdaughter about her needing to grow up for the sake of the children is just as bad if not worse than what she did.
So what if she tags the child's father in pictures of HIS daughter? Regardless of what her intentions are, there's nothing wrong with that, and you making an issue out of it only makes ONE person look like the troublemaker I'm afraid...you.
This whole situation is so sad. This man has a child by her, and TWO more on the way, with each of you expecting right? And not ONE of the adults in the situation is acting like it. The kids don't have a chance with all of the adults in their lives acting like children themselves.
So what if she tags the child's father in pictures of HIS daughter? Regardless of what her intentions are, there's nothing wrong with that, and you making an issue out of it only makes ONE person look like the troublemaker I'm afraid...you.
This whole situation is so sad. This man has a child by her, and TWO more on the way, with each of you expecting right? And not ONE of the adults in the situation is acting like it. The kids don't have a chance with all of the adults in their lives acting like children themselves.
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your ex's girlfriends page I mean. It's obviously a tense situation and that is stirring the pot right back at her. That was a moment in which she was commenting on her daughter and the people that are related to her daughter. You are as well but in the step mother way and it's a bit hurtful for you to then comment on her page in my opinion. Salt in the wound.
I never call ex's partners names because I'm not in their shoes. These women had 'something' your now partners thought was great enough to be with, have a kid with, and cared about them at one time. Remember that when dissing them. We can feel superior when we are with a guy that has an ex but hey, we're someone's ex too. We're all the same so it helps to not be caddy and to try to understand where someone else is coming from.
The drama continues when you post on her page.
I never call ex's partners names because I'm not in their shoes. These women had 'something' your now partners thought was great enough to be with, have a kid with, and cared about them at one time. Remember that when dissing them. We can feel superior when we are with a guy that has an ex but hey, we're someone's ex too. We're all the same so it helps to not be caddy and to try to understand where someone else is coming from.
The drama continues when you post on her page.
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Why wo7uld you comment on your ex's facebook page? Why are you looking at her page?
Right I don't care I'm thought it was funny n petty only cause she deleted my comment I actually find nothing wrong with posting a pic of his daughter I do it all the time
I don't get why you'd care what someone is doing on fb. It's not as important as you're making it out to be. Fb is lame, it's been given way too much power over people's emotions based on what is being posted on there. I think you should care more about what's happening in your real life rather than anything being posted online. If you and your boyfriend are happy then who gives a rats behind what she posts?
Shes jealous n amnoying not scared for her kids because we have her daughter all the time n knows my baby daddy ain't gone forsake none of his kids
I don't wanna pick side but have you ever though maybe she's scared. With a.new baby on the way maybe she's scared her daughter will be passed over for the new baby. I see kids do it all the time, they get jealous of the new baby so they make sure they are center of attention
I wouldn't mind it until it became less about there daughter and more about her and him
I wouldn't mind it until it became less about there daughter and more about her and him
Lol I commented n she deleted it .... I was like damn you don't want your people to see I love my step kid lol OK I don't care about that tho I'm just like please grow up for the sake of our kids .. She uses his kid as an excuse to text everyday when she knows he's gone call her to speak to the child anyway she just be trying so hard n think she so slick gone text n say yo baby wants to talk to u n he called n his daughter wasn't there she goes to say oh I just said that cause I know she read yo texts n I wanted to talk to you. .. He says well she right here n I told you if it aint about my kid Dont talk to me my conversation time is for my girl
Haha i would have liked the picture and put a smiley face under it because at the end of the day he is with you not her
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