petty drama

[twinsohlord]

So when I post on Fb I tagg my bf/bd in my post like pics of my belly or we watching the game just lil stuff so the other day his bm sent him a pic of his daughter the put it on Fb n tagged him n his mom ... He showed me n was like she tagged me to be petty cause in all our three yrs she's never tagged me in anything .... Why is she so dead set on making me upset which it didn't work cause I'm not Tripping over a pic of his kid I just don't get why she trying so hard to get to me

[knw1094]

I don't really understand why anyone is upset over this. It's his daughter whatever her reasons are for tagging him they don't matter, because that's his kid and that's all that matters.

[knw1094]

I don't get why he's upset I mean. My boyfriend has another baby mama too and anytime she so much as says congratulations on our baby he gets freaked out cause she's been such a witch in the past.

[TiKiyah]

Its upsetting because shes spiteful
Ignore it girl!
My fiance ex texts him non related **** to the kid to **** me off i laugh because shes just jealous and so is your bfs babymama they dont have a life.

[twinsohlord]

Lol i was just like awww my stinka butt so cute she deleted my comment n he not upset he just feel she's being petty about the whole situation

[TiKiyah]

Lol she is mad

[twinsohlord]

Lol that's a fact she's always gone be mad n she's not even cute I can't see why he messed with her

[TiKiyah]

Lmaoooo ikr my fiance ex looks like a cockaroach  

[LibraMum]

Lol y'all funny! Been there done that...ignore them it drives them even more crazy ha

[duckiie]

Haha i would have liked the picture and put a smiley face under it because at the end of the day he is with you not her

[twinsohlord]

Lol I commented n she deleted it .... I was like damn you don't want your people to see I love my step kid lol OK I don't care about that tho I'm just like please grow up for the sake of our kids .. She uses his kid as an excuse to text everyday when she knows he's gone call her to speak to the child anyway she just be trying so hard n think she so slick gone text n say yo baby wants to talk to u n he called n his daughter wasn't there she goes to say oh I just said that cause I know she read yo texts n I wanted to talk to you. .. He says well she right here n I told you if it aint about my kid Dont talk to me my conversation time is for my girl

[Katiepeters]

I don't wanna pick side but have you ever though maybe she's scared. With a.new baby on the way maybe she's scared her daughter will be passed over for the new baby. I see kids do it all the time, they get jealous of the new baby so they make sure they are center of attention
I wouldn't mind it until it became less about there daughter and more about her and him

[twinsohlord]

Shes jealous n amnoying not scared for her kids because we have her daughter all the time n knows my baby daddy ain't gone forsake none of his kids

[Chima7]

I don't get why you'd care what someone is doing on fb. It's not as important as you're making it out to be. Fb is lame, it's been given way too much power over people's emotions based on what is being posted on there. I think you should care more about what's happening in your real life rather than anything being posted online. If you and your boyfriend are happy then who gives a rats behind what she posts?

[TiKiyah]

She doesnt care she just thought it was funny and so did i

[twinsohlord]

Right I don't care I'm thought it was funny n petty only cause she deleted my comment I actually find nothing wrong with posting a pic of his daughter I do it all the time

[specialmom]

Why wo7uld you comment on your ex's facebook page?  Why are you looking at her page?  

[specialmom]

your ex's girlfriends page I mean.  It's obviously a tense situation and that is stirring the pot right back at her.  That was a moment in which she was commenting on her daughter and the people that are related to her daughter.  You are as well but in the step mother way and it's a bit hurtful for you to then comment on her page in my opinion.  Salt in the wound.  

I never call ex's partners names because I'm not in their shoes.  These women had 'something' your now partners thought was great enough to be with, have a kid with, and cared about them at one time.  Remember that when dissing them.  We can feel superior when we are with a guy that has an ex but hey, we're someone's ex too.  We're all the same so it helps to not be caddy and to try to understand where someone else is coming from.  

The drama continues when you post on her page.  

[nursegirl6572]

Petty drama is right, and you're fueling it just as much as she is.  For you to make a comment on her post of a picture of your stepdaughter about her needing to grow up for the sake of the children is just as bad if not worse than what she did.

So what if she tags the child's father in pictures of HIS daughter?  Regardless of what her intentions are, there's nothing wrong with that, and you making an issue out of it only makes ONE person look like the troublemaker I'm afraid...you.

This whole situation is so sad.  This man has a child by her, and TWO more on the way, with each of you expecting right?  And not ONE of the adults in the situation is acting like it.  The kids don't have a chance with all of the adults in their lives acting like children themselves.

[TTinKKerBBell]

This always sounds SO petty and SO high schoolish to me - which would be okay, I suppose, 'cept there are so many Babies involved in all this petty, silly drama.  

So agree with Chima, SpecialMom and NurseGirl!!

[RockRose]

Look at this as a learning opportunity.  When he leaves you and gets some other woman pregnant,  you'll know the stuff to do to get under her skin.

[twinsohlord]

I commented on a pic of my step kid that was on my bf Fb page

Sometimes I honestly feel u guys don't read the post or comments ..  

[twinsohlord]

So it's wrong to say that my srinka Butt is cute I see nothing wrong with that ... It was not on her page I was on his page her n I aren't friends on Fb ...

[twinsohlord]

N where n when did I say I posted on GWR page for her to grow up I said im just like grow up as in me thinking that you guys don't read on interpret well either or maybe its the way I wrote it but I only said my stinka butt so cute n my bd felt some way about her posting it not me I clearly stated I'm Not tripping over a picture of his daughter cause I post pics of her too that's my baby cakes....

[RockRose]

Twins,  honestly,  it's very hard to tell what you are talking about.  

How did she delete a comment you made on your boyfriend's page?