baby daddy issues

[duckiie]

So i only see him on scheduled apt days but before i got pregnant he was at my house 24/7 we hardly talk anymore im just fed up and over it i feel like im not important anymore and it ***** . I understand him being at work more but now its oh im at the studio i would have never expected to have this be this way after 2years  of being in a relationship i love my child but i wish me and him nvr have gotten into this situation while broken up (im 5months 1week weve been broken up for 6months) am i wrong for wanting more of his time even though were not together

[jem1011]

Yea girl I know that feeling all too well they do it so they can always be apart of ur life but feel like they don't have to commit just come and go as they please. Jokes on him though bc if he doesn't man up another man will and love u and ur baby to peices. Commit and stick by u while baby daddy misses out that's how my story played out.  And now I'm married to an amazing man expecting my second child. It hurt when I finally wised up to my daughters donors ******** especially after being together for so long. And then on the flip side he could suprise u. U just gotta put it in Gods hands and let him work it out. Keep ur head up.

[duckiie]

And i hate that old saying but its very true  and it just hurts to know that he basically got my pregnant on purpose but hes not around now

[jem1011]

I don't think its wrong at all,  its natural for u to want that extra time with the father together or not. With my first the instant sperm donor found out I was prego it was like he had every excuse in the world as to why he couldn't be around.I think a lot of guys get a little overwhelmed at the thought of being a parent and its one of those out of sight out of mind type deals like if they don't see baby mom and the growing bump they can pretend for a bit that it isn't reality. An old saying Ive always hear; that a a women becomes a mother the moment she finds out she's pregnant, but a man doesn't become a father until they hold their child. Good luck momma.