emotional crisis

[surflinda21]

How do i handle my fiance's family ?
When i met my fiance's family everything was going ok.
they always thought that between my fiance and i everything was going ok.
They did not know that everytime their son and i had an argument he would get really verbally abusive.i never said anything to them.
when we move to a new house i was tired of putting up with the way he treated me.
so couple of times i went out without coming home until 4am or later. His brother lives next door from us and he does not respect me. he said he was not gonna let me marry his brother that i was not good enough for his brother. Everybory is looking at me bad
the think that my fiance is the victim. I dont know what to do.

[Kalio1]

Why would you want to marry a guy who yells at you and is mean to you? Sounds like his family isn't very nice either. The apple doesn't fall far from the tree.

I'd move on. Love shouldn't hurt.

[anxiousmomtobe?]

This relationship is not workign for either of you.  Move out and move on.

[PlateletGal]

I know someone who had a similiar situation. Screw his family... they have no clue what goes on behind closed doors and you should remind them of that.

I hope you consider leaving this verbally abusive man. Relationships like this can easily turn into physical abuse.

Please stay safe and put yourself first. There wouldn't be victims in relationships if people stood up for themselves and refused to live with any kind of abuse.

[hardcoreback]

wooohhh... what kind of advice is that? nah, it's cool... fang for a fang.. teeth for a dick.. i mean teeth.. lol

[RockRose]

Break up with him,  and thank God you don't have any children together.

Between the two of you,  this is a disaster.  You run out when you have an argument and stay out until dawn,  and he is verbally abusive and his brother is a bully.

Why do women these days feel obligated to stay with boyfriends when it obviously isn't a match?  

Get out,  run fast and far.