don't feel anything during sex

[kartoucha]

hi,
I'm a 19 years old girl, I just lost my virginity to my boyfriend.
We started flirting, I was really wanting it and the tension was really high.
While the intercourse I didnt feel anything at ALL! no pleasure.
I always get satisfaction when I masturbate (outside), but after a lost my virginity, when I masturbated "inside" I didnt feel anything.
I'm really frustuated about this, because I'm afraid I will never feel anything during sex.
I know it's the first time, and it was not my partner's fault because I was soooo into it and wanted to do it soo bad.
Maybe it's because the first time and I'm not used to it, but still i'm scared it's going to be this one forever.
I've done some researches on internet, there are women who never feel anything and others that need to try more then once so the nerves will "wake up".

please help me!!! I want to know what is wrong with me!

[Monica70]

When I lost my virginity in my teens (I'm now 37 years old), I thought, 'This hurts! How could anyone like this!' Then I thought, people keep doing it, so there must be something about it. Needless to say, I kept at it.

I didn't really enjoy sex 'til I was about 27 years old. That's because I now own my sexuality. I am more relaxed about the idea of sex and it's okay for a woman to enjoy it and need it. I know what pleases me and am not afraid to tell my partner about it--works like a charm.

Have you ever heard the saying, "The biggest sex organ is between the ears."--your brain.

I can achieve orgasm vaginally, and of course, from clitoral stimulation. The sensation is different, with clitoral stimulation being the most intense.

I wouldn't give up on sex. Perhaps you and your partner are not compatible? It happens.

[RockRose]

You're not supposed to feel anything inside your vagina.  That's why on tampon packages,  it says if you've inserted the tampon correctly,  you won't be able to feel it.  If you DO feel it it means it's not inserted far enough and is actually coming out.

During sex if your cervix gets hit really hard you can feel it,  or if you're at an angle where your ovaries feel pressure,  it hurts.  But your vagina doesn't have many nerve endings.

What makes sex pleasurable is your clitoris,  which is located outside of your vagina,  and during sex comes in contact with the the area right above your partner's penis.

There,  that was graphic.  ;D  

Does that answer your concern?

[imanaddict]

Are you talking about you had no pleasure whatsoever or are you saying you didn't have an orgasm? A LOT of women do not have orgasms through intercourse alone. And an orgasm from masturbation and an orgasm through intercourse do not feel the same. For the longest I had the two mixed up and thought they felt the same and always said that I had never had an "internal orgasm" before when actually I had been having them all along!