Really need advice..

[nellabug]

Really need advice. Friends and family never help they only make things worse.


Is it the hormones or something more? I'm 10 weeks pregnant. I've been with the father since 2010. We have a daughter that will be 3 soon. In 2012 we broke up for 7 months and got back together in Feb. 2013. Feb. 2014 I miscarried at 7 weeks. Shortly after that we got engaged. I'm a stay at home mom and he works. Since 2010 (except the 7months we broke up) he ALWAYS called when he was leaving work. Recently he doesn't tell me he's leaving. And when I asked about it he asked me why he has to tell me. About 2 days ago he deleted his Facebook and email and made a new of both. Now his new Facebook friends consist of people he hung out with when we broke up and girls that I'm positive he doesn't know. And we know each others passwords and everything but now he didn't even give me his new info and when I sat next to him yesterday he was deleting facebook messages. Is it something more or am I just over thinking?

[Londres70]

Stay at your mother's for a while.  Sounds like he is up to NO good indeed...that's my guess.

I am not understanding all this checking each other's phones, fb, etc.  Sounds totally ridiculous.  I mean...where is the trust in these relationships?

May I ask why you broke up in 2012?  What was/were the problem(s) then?

[Chima7]

It sounds like he's up to no good. If I were in your shoes I wouldn't put up with it. You should stay at your mom's for a while and make it clear that his suspicious behavior is unacceptable and you're not going to deal with it anymore so he needs to either shut it down or else you're not coming back.

[nellabug]

I've asked him before if he was cheating and of course I get a no every time. I texted to just to see what he would say. (I told him I was going to stay at my moms for a few nights. He texts back why. And I told him I had a lot in My head and his actions weren't helping. He texts back and says okay )any other time he would of asked what's wrong.

[siyahboo]

I dnt mean to be krazy but at would watch him put his passcode on a few times and den wen yhu gt it while he sleep or jus take it an run to a room an lock da door but log in and check everything....and if yhu find sumthin do wat yhu do I personally gt a tool from da back seat of his car and busted his windows and carved cheater wit a key on his door den broke uo wit him

[vbaal]

Im telling you girl look at the activity log . The truth will come out

[2xmommie]

You have the right to be skeptical of his behavior, seems like he did a 180 on you.... Deleting messages, in the middle of the night, from anything is suspect.... He should've known you would think something is going on, if he all of the sudden has secrets and don't communicate like you guys use to.

[mommyhails]

That seems too fishy to me...honestly I'd just leave him...I know it's alot easier said then done though but if he's acting like then what other explanation does he have?

[nellabug]

Yeah we always go through each others phones. I catch him in the middle of the night checking mine. When he made the new account he added an old friend of mines sister who he has called a number of time a who** and a ho*. And then this other girl I've never even heard of. We have told each other every since day on but now its secrets.

[tigermamaof2]

Something sounds fishy to me my x did the same thing a couple of times he went as far as breaking his phone so i didnt catch him doin it if he has nothing to hid he shouldn't have to delete his Facebook then make another... Me and my fiance let eachother see everything ill even let him take my phone and message who ever and i do the same... But we bolth dont have any friends in the oposite sex so we both don't worry about that anyways

[vbaal]

Most guys are dumb enough not too look at it and delete it or they dont know

[vbaal]

If hes deleteing hes cheating!! Or talking too girls

Go to his settings on his fb
If you ever get the chance and than their shouls be a activity log and it will SHOW EVERYTHING HE EVER DONE on facebook