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emotional attachment

last day i was go through a personality test . they are saying am not emotional attached to the  people who are with me. thats right .how can i over come this?
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908392 tn?1316522899
I'm glad to hear it's working out for you :)
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hai
  i think what u are saying thats right. your advise is very much helping.
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908392 tn?1316522899
To be social it takes a strong determination and a willingness to get out of your comfort zone. It means making the first step and putting yourself out there.

Just be yourself, be comfortable with who you are and love yourself. Allow people to get to know you and love you. The worst thing you can do is change who you are to win friendships. They won't be genuine friends if you put on a face of what you think they'll like. Take time to listen to people who want to make friends. Making friends is not easy, but if you have confidence than your shyness will eventually fade.

Start with just saying hello to a stranger while walking by. From there you can start conversations with people at school, religious group or anywhere. Try joining groups that share the same interests as you, that way you can open up without fear or without wondering what to say.

Remember that even if someone doesn't want to talk to you doesn't mean that others won't. There is nothing bad that can happen from talking to someone. They won't hurt you and the world won't end.

I hope this goal goes well for you. It all depends on how much you want this. If you hate being anti-social then you'll want to fix it so you can be different.  hope this helped and take care of yourself. Trina :D
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yes. when am with my room mates i was not attached to them. they are in same class and am from another. am thinking they are avoiding me or y i hav to disturb them like that..whn i am in emotional help am feeling loneness and i cant express it properly.
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1220347 tn?1345428521
Can you be a little more specific? It all depends on the situation.
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