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[priya720]

im maried and have a baby ,my husband cheat on me ,we were seperate,after few months he want to be back,
i said to him i need time ,prove me if u r finish with this girl,im confused,becoze he change his number,and one morning i see the girl ring him.he keep say he love me ,dont no wat to do.

[priya720]

hi,thx for your suport,im trying to stop talk about her,with my husband,i just get very angry sometime and start fight with him.i do my best to stop.

[priya720]

hi,mami,thx god u settle ,nd u r happy,i learn some from u as well,

[mami1323]

Can I just say that I know what you are going through.  My fiance had a long term affair and intially when he wanted to stay and work things out, he had a difficult time letting go of the other woman.  I stood by him each time he told me it was over and that he was going to stop contacting her.  He eventually did but to be honest if I could go back in time, I would've kicked him out until he was ready to really let her go and move forward.  Yes, in the end we worked through the issues and he eventually let her go but it seriously was the hardest and worst time of my life.  I couldn't understand why he wouldn't just stop talking to her.  He finally told me it was hard because he did have feelings for her but that didn't make it easier for me.  I guess looking back I wasn't as strong as I am now and I deserved better at the time and didn't stand up for that.  If I could do it again I would've done things differently.  I'm still with him and we are doing great but I just know better now.

[malagha]

That's great... you both are doing well.
the meaning of love appears in the hardest of time..
look at the full half of the glass, this problem and the idea of separation makes him realize how much does he loves you, and your presence in his life means a lot..
all of what he needs now is your support, understanding and love
wish you all the best ;)

[priya720]

hi,i no wat u mean ,i feel the same.

[priya720]

hi,thx to answer me ,i still love him,thats why want t try again .

[priya720]

hi,thx very much ,,he said to me ,dont talk about her,he want to forget her,was all a mistake ,,he is sorry for wat he did ,u r right i want to give him a chance only for my son ,i want to live as a happy familly ,i had a chat with him today in front his mam,someone tell me he went to see her twice ,she still had his number ,so i no they still txt,she want to meet him,,he had promise me today,he wont meet her,i said to him,if u want to be with i dont mind,move on ,let me move on.he want to move on with me.

[malagha]

Hi...
I know that this is very hard to handle but i want to say a thing in here. If he is a good man, that treats you in a good way, and he know that what he have done is wrong and wants to overcome all of this... give him your support and be by his side.
and since he came back that means he still loves you and needs you..
And remember that he is the father of your child, and whatever might happen will affect your child. you are a family now not just a couple...

[Sakhi121]

First of all a hug...it's not easy going through the roller coaster of emotions which am sure you are going through,being of an Indian origin I can understand your predicament..please tell us a little more about him and ur life life with and without him....what are ur thoughts...how long have u been together...what are ur priorities...take care of urself
Sakhi

[Marcus177]

Sounds like he is still cheating.