Im 31 will be 32 in feb my rainbow baby is due in march. Iv got a 12(13)in dec special needs girl and 9(10) dec son. When mom found out I was having her she fliped out I get it I was 18 . Never told her about son tile I had him was liveing 4 states away. Im 5 mins from her know when she found out I was pg in 2011 she tryed to brake my nose!!! Cance caused me to lose that baby. How and when should I tell her about my baby. Wer in a tight spot. Me and baby daddy work part time he doesn't get most of his cheek. ( goes to his ex). My folks id say can atlest stand baby daddy this time they talk to him and have him help them when needed. Im 9.3 weeks and go to doc on the 2nd. We have no car either my girlfriend lets me use hers. How should I handle this?