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me and my ex
Me and my ex broke up 2 or 3 months ago. Well we recently started talking again and we both miss each other. Its my birthday next weekend and he said he was going to come up (I moved 11 hours away). I'm very lonely here and homesick and upset. We got into a fight friday and so yesterday I texted him and he sent a couple texts. Then I asked if he was going to come and visit still and got no response, so I asked if he was mad at me and got nothing. I still haven't heard from him. What should I do? I would leave him alone but i'm so upset and just need a cuddle.
When a guy or ex in this case does not respond it's because he is uncertain if he want to take the next step. We never know if he has problems with his phone, but he could always use someone elses, but that means that he's not certain of you, the situation or if he wants to continue to pursue it further, so keep your heart in check and do not text him from this point on. He is called an "ex" for a reason. Good luck.
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Yes, there is a troubling disconnect here. Either these are not real posts or something is wrong. Sorry to put it that way but three profiles later and there is still no connection happening. Anyway, good luck
he text me back last night just saying he isn't mad at me, makes me frustrated that he barely texts me
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Oh, and I agree with pursuetruth that you should not text him anymore. If he wants to be in touch, he will be. Sorry you are hurting.
COMMUNITY LEADER
Oh my goodness. After your post last week about really really liking a guy who was a jerk to you and it was his birthday, etc.------------- I'm just thinking you need to examine this neediness further. May I ask how old you are?
Don't let loneliness get mistaken for wanting to be with your ex. There must be a reason you now live 11 hours away. Make a list of his good and bad traits, just to remind yourself.
It's scary to be alone, and it's scary to find someone new, but it's stupid to know someone is wrong for you and let homesickness make you think that you want HIM.
Best wishes (and stop texting him...leave it be)
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