roommate problems

[taytaymays]

So I live with my best friend and my boyfriend and we're all really good friends. Then we also have her boyfriend here. Here's the thing, she didn't clean up after herself, and her boyfriend expects her to clean up after him. Overall there's always a huge mess around the house that's not from my boy and I. Then she makes snide comments on glow we don't clean up after ourselves, and how when I cook I dint clean up my mess right away when she's the one who leaves food out on the stove all night with a sink full of her dishes! Basically she's expecting us to be clean freaks when she doesn't do anything herself. Normally (before I got pregnant) I didn't let this get to me. But now whenever I step in the kitchen to get something to eat, I seriously have to run to the bathroom and throw up because it's disgusting. All in all, what do I do!? I don't want to be a crazy prego and tell her to clean her sh*t and ask her boy to at least chip in and clean his messes, but I'm about to blow up.

[taytaymays]

I have but they don't seem to care or listen. But me and my boyfriend find a place we can afford so hopefully we'll be out in a month!

[Londres70]

Sounds like you need your own place and soon.

Have you discussed this problem with her and her bf?  Maybe you all should agree on taking turns with kitchen clean-up......assigned days?  You would only have to do that for a couple of months.

[taytaymays]

Nah I'm not jealous at all lol

[Life360_Dave]

Hi also. Theres something more going on here. When people start picking at eachother and getting on their nerves, maybe some jeoulousy.  Its really time to move out.

[taytaymays]

We're moving out in December, I.just think that I'm going to blow up before hand and mess things up, that's why I've kept my mouth shut. I'll just keep all my dishes in the room until I'm ready to clean. It's ridiculous, how hard is it to move dishes into a dishwasher!

[ohalie]

In that situation, not much will help. I talked with my roommates so many times. It just got to the point where I kept all of my dishes in my room for me and my boyfriend. Then, they would run out of dishes and have to clean up.

[kay1027]

I would move out or if its you and your bf's place I would kick them out. I have been through that with friends and is going through that with family.would you want your child going through that.