should i let him go?

[suicidelove]

I have been with my him for almost 5 years now we r engaged and I love him to death,  he is by far the most amazing person I know he has been there for me at my worst and even though I haven't been the best of girlfriends he has always taken me back and forgave all my mistakes. I sometimes feel like he deserves so much better than me but at the same time I can't see my life without him. Well the thing is that me and him haven't had intercourse for months now and it's because I have an infectious thing going on and I have to wait till it goes away on it's own. I feel so bad because I can't pleasure him and I wish I could. He doesn't seem that bothered about us not having intercourse but I don't think it's fair for him. Also before all this we were trying to have a baby for a long time and it never worked what if its me? This is some of the reasons I sometimes think I should let him go. He deserves so much better than me he deserves a girl that can make him so happy like he deserves.

[Londres70]

He is amazing and his decision is to stick by you.  I think that's wonderful dear.  

Do talk over your options with your GYN Specialist.  I don't see this too often, but I know there are procedures such as freezing and scraping that can be done for this as well as creams that can be prescribed.  

You've got a "good one" dear; don't let him go.  

All the best.  

[suicidelove]

Thank u everyone all ur advice helps a lot and I have been to the Dr and they said I have to wait it out it can take months or years and I don't want to put him through that, he is just that amazing he doesn't deserve that. Thank u k111, Londres70, AnnieBrooke, and TTinKKerBBell. I have molluscum contagiosum btw and obviously contagious so I don't wanna risk giving it to him.

[TTinKKerBBell]

Why don't You BE that person You think He deserves to have?
- AND there can be intimacy without intercourse
- AND AnnieBrooke is right - You should seek medical treatment for an infection.

[AnnieBrooke]

If you wait for an infection in your lady parts to go away naturally, it might lead to pelvic inflammatory disease, and that can lead to infertility.  So please, sweetheart, do see a doctor and get treated with the appropriate antibiotics.  In the meantime, hand jobs for your boyfriend, or a b.j., will be nice for him I am sure.

[Londres70]

Are you seeing a physician in regards to your medical issues?  

Sounds like he has chosen to be by you through "thick and thin" and that speaks VOLUMES about his character.  He's a keeper dear.  

[ku111]

Couples go through many ups and downs throughout a relationship.  Sometimes a real curve ball can be thrown and both people either work their way through it or don't.  If you were married, would you expect him to stick it out?  I have been married for 20 years and boy have we had our share of curve balls.  I still am amazed we made it through and are still working all the time.  BUT, we love each other for better or worse and that's why this works.  Sounds like a good guy and if he wanted out, he'd go.  Maybe he doesn't want to be without you.  Not everything is fair but true love means far more than intercourse.  If you love him, hang in there and always work for a better relationship.  You can be intimate and romantic in other ways that mean so much too!  This is just one of those curve balls and you will need to get around it.  Goodluck!