still 15

[PrinceKabir]

i'm 15 and i'm a boy. i'm in a relationship with a girl from 3 months. i really love her.

let me tell you the real thing. i'm really confused. my mind is out of control. actually i think that i want a daughter. i know that its not at all possible but i want someone who'd love me back. i'm not able to meet my girl. i feel so lonely. i would give my daughter anything she wants.


is this type of thinking normal? please help me.

[specialmom]

Hi.  I do agree with londres.  You are young and this is a time in life that is about YOU. You can have a girlfriend and friends that you enjoy------ but this is a time for you to grow and develop into a man.  

Do you think you are depressed or blue?  If you are, talk to your parents about this.  They may be able to set you up to talk to someone to help.

The best thing you can do for yourself is to work hard in school and prepare for a full life ahead.  

Enjoy your girlfriend but do not make her the center of your universe . . . that should still be you.  And let me tell ya, kids are great and all but HARD work, expensive and time consuming.  Don't think of them as something that will make your life better until you've lived a little and can make a good life for THEM.  good luck

[Londres70]

In my opinion a 15 year old shouldn't be concerned with creating children because he/she is a child himself/herself.  This is not the way to "have someone to love you" per se.  

Not able to meet your girl?  What is that about?  Didn't understand that.  

I would recommend finding hobbies or doing activies so that you can meet other teens.  

How is your relationship with your parents?