hi thnx again .. well we spoke n we mooved on from that problem , so t told him that it is hurd to build relationship n i want to , but i do not know if u want to as well .. so he said that he have some problems at work n with his family n he asked me for some time , that i give him some time n he also said that doent mean that we should stop talking ... I told him that he have the right to get the time that h needs ;; but deep inside i feel that something is wrong n i do not know what to do ....
Sweetie, you kind of missed my point. I was stating that the problem in the phone call was YOU. You were passive aggressive and threw out a question just for a reaction to show you are unhappy. This is for you to own and to address in terms of evolving the way you communicate with this or any significant other. good luck
hey thnx for responding .
well i after i red what u've said , i called him once but he didnt pik up ... so i stoped calling him , n i really don't know what to say to him , nhow to make every thing work , bcz he is a really difficult kinde of guy ..
Hi there and welcome. Well, your question was attention seeking dear. If you really want to know if you should leave him---------- would you just ask that at the end of a conversation? You were trying to convey that you miss him but really missed the mark. What you actually said to him was "I doubt our relationship and I doubt you." I'm sure that was not the message you intedended but that explains why he got mad.
You need to try new methods to communicate with someone. I simple "I miss you so very much and can't wait to spend more time with you. I'm just hoping that this will be soon. I'm really lonely without you." Rather than what you did which was very passive aggressive. it was almost threatening sweetie.
So, I do think you messed up. What you should do is wait to talk to him and then apologize and tell him that you just miss him and will try to just say that rather than other things that you aren't feeling (like should I leave you). good luck