So, let me think think think when an actual argument last happened. We have mini heated exchanges more frequently than arguments. My husband switched from working in an office to working out of the home. And wow, that means I see him a LOT. LOL> and the last heated exchange . . . well, I give just about everything to my family. I eat last and take the little piece of chicken (don't worry, I'm not skinny because of this, ha ha) and then end up cutting half of that up for one of my kids who ate all of theirs. I am often last. Except for my juice. ha, there this green juice that only comes in a small bottle and is expensive and I have it at night. Like, my thing. I don't buy it all the time but when I do---- LOVE IT and IT'S mine. Except, my husband likes it. So, I put it in the back of the frig. And yesterday, he found it! And I watched as he poured 3/4 of the bottle into a big glass for himself leaving one tiny sip for me. Because I was watching and not looking happy, he said "what?" in a tone that said I shouldn't have a problem with this. And I launched -- MY JUICE, MY JUICE, MY JUICE. LOL I should be embarrassed to admit this petty and silly moment. But it happened.
And the I love you came when I saw him pour it back in the bottle and he said sorry about 5 minutes later. :>) Marital bliss at its finest.
I dont remember the last time we had an argument. We dont usually let things get to that point. Life is too short to argue. We have both learned to pick our battles. Last time i told him i loved him? 2 hrs ago!