Hello Medhelp,
I had a regretful encounter last night. It was risky. I visited a csw where I was involved in unprotected masturbation, protected oral sex and brief vaginal sex (protected). Also a bit of French kissing not really deep.
I was 'high' and decided to visit a csw. A woman I have been with before where I was involved in protected oral and masturbation. She also told me that she is free of any sort of STDs, as in I've spoken to her about it.
It started with me rubbing my penis on her feet (she was standing). It was followed by bare-body hugging/rubbing, kissing on the upper body and the face. She stroked my penis for a while and then gave me a 'foot-job' for a few minutes. I did not wear a condom then.
Thereafter, I put on the condom and went ahead with oral sex. I was masturbating to finish off but she insisted on having sex. I didn't want to but I got tempted. I was in missionary when I was shove in but I didn't really do it. Just managed to rub my penis on her vagina. I was masturbating after that and then she turned and told me to enter from behind (into her vagina). I did shove though, not too deep. I had my fingers holding the condom. So I had my hand in between our bodies. I didn't really have sex but this did last for a minute. I finished off in the same position with my hand on the condom. I'm very worried after this.
I saw that the condom was intact and not torn. She removed it and I asked her if I could catch any STDs. She said she doesn't carry anything and gets tested once in 3 - 4 months
My worry here is, can I catch herpes from this? Or any other Std? Do I need to get tested or what should I expect? I have never really had sex before this. Just protected oral, where I tested earlier this year for HIV and was negative. I have never tested for anything else. What are chances of being safe after this. Please advice.
I'm really regretful of this whole thing and wish to get out of this situation. Please help.
Thank you