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[briand101]

I had an encounter with a sex worker last night, it was intended to be protected oral, but I came too fast before we started anything and I think the condom only ended up covering the head, I had put  it on backwards at first and then she 'jumped in' and attempted to put it on the head properly and did oral for like 10 seconds.I am not 100% certain it was covering me properly. I remember seeing it over the top of the head but  My concern is I have psoriasis rashes that come and go and I did not know if that would make it easier to catch something if she came into contact with my skin during oral or how serious of a risk I would have been in

[Vance2335]

I'm sorry but if you keep this up you will be reported for excessive posting. You are not listening to anything you have been told and we don't have anything else to say.

Guilt/anxiety is not a risk. You may want to look into seeking a therapist to help you accept things.

[briand101]

I have a rash now that is ugly, and sore all day and it has white at certain spots. like a crust maybe? I feel horrible. in same spot as early on 5 weeks ago that lady said was not std related, it looks different.

[briand101]

sorry but I have n one to really talk to about this..i am having pelvic pain now...just please let me know if the6 week test was too soon or if it is a good sign for herpes..please

[briand101]

The rashes are where the condom may not have been

[briand101]

I am really not trying to hound anyone, but what are all these symptoms then? Can you tell me if the symptoms are similar or are what herpes
would be? If they are not I am trying to close the door but I feel they are

I appreciate your response..I know I need to back off the posting but I am a wreck

[Life360_Dave]

You had no risk

[briand101]

one more thing, I am now having different rashes, at the back of the top of the head in the ridge, never seen them like this, and there looks like real small pimples or dots,in it, and it is sensitive to the touch, also burning lips, tired, tight left forearm, cold hand and sometimes a tingle. I don't go to the doc until Tuesday to follow up, but will you just tell me if this sounds like herpes? It has been 7or 8 weeks now since Imet the girl, (9/27)and I have had these symptoms on and off ever since (except lower back pain, that started about a week ago) I had not really noticed any out of the ordinary until the PA  at the urgent care asked me if I had any lower back pain and I did not then(that was on veterans day) My eyes are burning too...I am really over stressing and it is getting me, I cant tell u how horrible I feel . I did have tests that were negative at the 6 week mark. I am concerned that the covering me properly and she came in contact with an uncovered part, please just give me some feedback. My appetite is affected too

[briand101]

ok..if i test positive in 6 weeks I will let you know

thanks anyway

[Vance2335]

Nothing more to say then what has been said, you had no risk.

[briand101]

Hi again...all my tests were negative but all were done at the 6week post encounter mark. Is it  a good sign if herpes is negative at this point or just flat out irrelevant. I am having lower back pain, and stress seems to bring on these other symptoms to some degree. Most have gone away but can sense some things starting, again

[briand101]

Because I am still not sure about the risk, the condom was inside out, and over the head only, don't ask, I don't know how she got it that way, but that is the way I remember it. My bad for not doing it myself..I dont know for sure she nver went any further than the condom, i did not think she did... And I am having all these freaking symptoms...of something, I don't know what. My back is bothering me now.

[Vance2335]

Why am I going to answer a question when you did not have a risk?

[briand101]

I would like  ask something, I have not rec'd my test results yet, but is it possible for there to not be an outbreak at where the virus would have entered the body (rash, etc) but you still have other symptoms? Look, I am paranoid I admit it, I am scared to death I have this. I have had a twitch in my armpit and in pelvic area, and I really just was hoping someone would let me know if everything I have described up until now through these posts, especially the arm tightness and tingling in arms and eye soreness are symptoms if one had it or are not. I am not asking someone to tell me that I have it or not. My body is having aches and I have all kinds of things going on. I am trying to relax but I am under so much stress I cannot take it anymore

[briand101]

j got back from doc, they said rash was nothing, but they are taking blood tests anyway, and they are testing my thyroid too as there is some concern there but she said it was not the flu prob some kind of virus

she said blood testing would be accurate now for all but syphilis  she tested me for some things.

Thanks

[Vance2335]

Reread everything you have been advised.

[briand101]

Hi, Please, would someone just comment as to if these symptoms could be Herpes?  it has been about a month and a half since my encounter. I had the symptoms above and they went way but this weekend came back.
Tingle in hands/arms-tightness in left arm mostly and both the third and fourth finger had soreness. Sorness was minor. Mouth is dry, lips feel icy but dry and burn, aches  in different part of body, eye strain, blury vision, headaches (could be from the vision issue) flush in head and warm face. Hot in nose when I breathe, cant explain that any further, really exhausted, itching all over at times, penis this weekend had a few3 or 4 I think (hard to see) together, sensitive to touch, did not appear to be a blister now it is white and I think it is crusting over but very, very small. cluster off pimples really tiny. I am going to Urgent care tomorrow night but I don't think I will know anything until I can be blood tested for this. I have had Mono for a long time, and I think my spleen may be affected and I am not getting over the flu as I should be. Just a thought, but I just need someone to help me.I appreciate it.

[briand101]

last post, I am not getting a response so everyone thinks I have nothing, just ultra concerned cause the 'crater' is now  scab..nvr seen this before. I know I will need to wait u til January to get tested but niot sure what is going on. This is on the head and in a different place than the derm docs checked.
it appears to be a minor scab, so maybe I cut myself or something, dont know. my eyes are burning all the time and scared I have herpes now in the eyes or something. vision is not as good either, I hope the head was covered enough for this. Now I am not sure what the truth is, when the condom was on it was inside out stretched over the head, at least the way I remember after when I looked that is what I saw.

[briand101]

Last night I masturbated and started bleeding at the mid section of the penis head. There is  small crater there in the center of i(lack of a better word) and I was unsure if this would be a symptom of Herpes or something. There is a very minor burn there once in a while. It was not there before I did it, (I had underwear on and noticed the blood on them) There was no pus or anything that I could see. I also have had more watery sperm for a while ( at least it seems like it)

[briand101]

and by the way, I did have a rash that was on the shaft but it went away and burned when I applied Protopic to it. For Psoriasis .2 days later it was gone with no outbreak of a blister or anything

[briand101]

Hi, I It has been 12 days since I was with that woman, and I have been having flu symptoms for abut 8 days, they change but I have been having intense tingling in both arms to my hands, and also sometimes in my shoulders.  Sometimes my arms are tight and sore. My wife is having the flu symptoms tooo and we are not sexually active so I have been believing the doc was right when he said it was some kind of virus/flu. She is not having the same tingling but some.  Is this arm tightness and tingling that comes and goes an is intense a Herpes symptom? I am on an antibiotic called Levofloxacin and just saw Iam to stop taking this if pain/numbness/BURNNG/TINGLING/Weakness in your arms, HANDS, legs and feet. I will stop taking this Med because I have that, but can you let me know if this is a symptom of Herpes too?

[briand101]

do my symptoms seem to you in your experience/knowledge to be what herpes would be? I'm desperate, I have this weight of exhaustion that is coming over me. Please..

[briand101]

that scares me because of all these symptoms

[Life360_Dave]

If her lips made contact with the part of  your penis that was not covered and she rubbed and grinded that area you would be at risk. Thats all i can really say at this point.

[briand101]

even if she might have sucked it? , just asking, u had made the comment b4 that if her lips were on the shaft it would be a risk, I'm not certain how much of it she took, per se.i can see how where my rash is, her lips could have been . I thought it was just the head and can visualize her moving her lips there. maybe I'm thinking too much but my symptoms are nasty