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In hotel about to cry...

Hi I am very worried for my stag do (I get married next Saturday) we have come to Amsterdam. My friends organised a party and we had lap dancers and strippers. One of them to each guy, this girl stripped naked and danced for me and girated on my penis through clothes.

She then without warning took out my erect penis and slapped it against the front of her vagina around 4 times, she then sat straddled me and pushed her vagina onto my scrotum before I forced her off.

I had no idea she would do this and stopped her as soon as I could.

Am I at risk of STI's from this? Is there anything I should do, or should I just come clean and confess to my fiance before we get married next week as it would be a very poor start to our married life if I give her syphilis or herpes :(

So so mad at myself and currently sat in my hotel room about to cry.

Please help me.
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I read this and if your penis did not enter her vagina you are at no risk.  Forget this ever happened.
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Don't overreact. You're obviously upset by the sexual implications, but there is little or no risk of any STD from an exposure like this. You don't need testing and will not put your wife at risk.

Best wishes for a happy and successful marriage!
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