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Fingering and touching own genital in spa can cause HPV.

So in feb 2022 i gone to a spa where done stupidity and touch that spa girl ***** ( We both are naked) i fingered her and i fell her fluid in my fingers and stupid me i touch me penis with the same hand, we cuddled and do kisses on cheeks, in anxiety i took azithromycin 1g to protect myself from other std/sti, now after 2 months in april i got severe burning in my penis ( whole glan become red) meatus open up wide a little, got white ulcers type marks inside meatus, and pain in lower abdomen, and next day testicle got swollen, took doxy not worked then a doc gave me nerve relaxing med it worked for my testicle pain nd swelling but penile redness and rash is still there along with white marks inside meatus alog with pain in lower abdomen.
test taken
HIV, Gonorrhea, Syphillis, Hepres,Mycopalsma, Ureaplasma- Neg
Chlamydia igg Pos after taking me- Neg.

Now its been 1.5 years i am suffering with this even i didn't have any proper encounter no penetration or oral.
small red/ brown dots on glans and white marks/bumps inside meatus makes me thing can it be HPV.

As there is no test for HPV, what i should do now have gone to various doc no one is able to help me.

Even if this is HPV urethra condyloma which i searched from net, what i should do now to prevent & cure it.

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207091 tn?1337709493
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Agree totally. This is not a way to get an STD.

I don't know what you have - balanitis, maybe, but it's not an STI.
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I have read online that skin touch can cause HPV but my initial symptoms was not pointing on HPV,
MY INITIAL SYMPTOMS.
Burning while urine ejaculate.
Swollen testicles.
pain in lower abdomen.
Red brown rash on penile area.

*Current Symptoms*
Burning in urine/ejaculation sometimes. not always.
pain in lower abdomen since starting.
Red brown rash on penile area.

One thing want to mention. whenever i drink beer my symptoms got worse like, 1 time i drink on 11august 2022 i got wounds on my penis. then after 1 year on 19 august 2023. i drink just 2 sip of beer i got pain in my stomach.

Had gone to various dermatologist, urologist, most of them said its urethritis/ CPPS.  but no one knows what causing this.

Totally lost hope now as suffering from this since 1.5 years any help would be Appriciated.  


can you please help me can hpv cause all this issues with me, i also have white skin peeling sometimes.
For the non-skin symptoms, I'd bet it's CPPS. Alcohol (and caffeine) can be very irritating to that. Also, there is often no identified cause.

It can be non-bacterial, meaning no infection caused it.

https://www.urologyhealth.org/urology-a-z/p/prostatitis-(infection-of-the-prostate) - this has some good info about CPPS.

HPV wouldn't cause any of those symptoms. It causes bumps on the skin or no symptoms at all.

The peeling skin can be fungal - jock itch, yeast, etc - or eczema, dermatitis, allergies. It might even be really dry skin.

The red/brown rash you have might be caused by the same thing that is causing the peeling skin. Has your dermatologist seen that?

I know it's frustrating to not know the cause, but often, we don't ever know the cause of medical problems. Just because it's happening in the genital area doesn't make it an STI.

Avoid alcohol and caffeine, and increase your water intake.

I just don't see HPV being a factor here at all.

Thank you soo much for replying, it's really helping me, yeah i have gone to various dermatologist some give antifungals some gives antibiotics, gone to various urologist they say meatus is inflammed.

*i also think HPV Can't be the major reason, but after taking various antibiotics and antifungal this thing is not getting better. i have already taken all STD/STI Test all are neg i just got chlamydia igg positive in initial days when this started but after taking  medicine
i just took all std/sti test and all neg now doc just giving me nerve relaxing medicine which are not much helping me either.

*I didn't get my symptoms worse after caffeine or alcohol just specifically from beer which i have noticed as of now. there are some white marks scarring type inside meatus also i forgot to mentioned. it's also since starting.

* My Major question which is still here is my total encounter I touch her vagina (WET) I FINGERED her i feel her fluid on my fingers and i touch my penis with the same hand. also she came on top only one time. no penetration or oral i clearly remember. this thing gives me guilt like it's my fault to go there but i didn't do sex or oral just fingering someone and touching own **** cause all this trouble. also this came after 2 months to be exact. this whole situation put me in deep guilt and makes me sad my encounter is soo stupid still i am suffering ( Sorry shared this but no one is there with whom i can talk).

*Does circumcision help in my situation i am uncircumcised one doc recommend me that?

*And if its not some STD/STI can i had sex with my gf she doesn't know anything about this.
*I didn't get my symptoms worse after caffeine or alcohol just specifically from beer

Beer IS alcohol. Maybe there is something about the beer that bothers you more than vodka or whiskey or some other alcohol, but beer is alcohol.

I would not recommend circumcision. You have a temporary problem that does not need a permanent solution.

You have already been told that fingering someone and then touching yourself does not transmit HPV, or any other STI. It doesn't work that way.

When you say she came on top - was she sitting on top of you?

If you have a fungal infection, and took antibiotics, it can make the fungal infection worse.

Your meatus can be inflamed with prostatitis/CPPS.

Your GF doesn't know you have CPPS?

If you still have symptoms of a fungal infection, or a rash, you should not have sex with her.
* My gf doesn't know anything. yes i have red pimple types rash on glans.
*yes she sit on top of me we both are naked. but we didn't had sex as i was very scared of HIV That time.
*I started with antibiotics doxy azithromycin fluconazole canditrial lenozolid and now nerve relaxing medicine.
*Does HPV cause all this symptoms. or should i ruleout HPV ?
*
You have taken a LOT of antibiotics. Were those prescribed to you, or did you take them on your own?

You've also taken two strong antifungals.

Maybe stop taking all those, stay on the nerve relaxer, which is for the CPPS, and let your skin heal.

NO, HPV can not cause any of this. I've said that so many times - I don't know how else to say it.

How are you cleaning your penis? Use a gentle, non-soap cleanser once a day. Keep the area dry. Are you cleaning under the foreskin? Make sure to do that, gently.

If she sat on you, you could get a fungal infection - if she had a yeast infection, for example. That's the only thing this could be. You've already treated for that with the antifungals, so don't take anymore. Let it just heal.

This is NOT an STI. I can't say it any other way.

Thank you soo much for your advice,

Yeah antibiotics was prescribed by doctors, i haven't taken any of this on my own as i took doxy when i got chlamydia igg positive it not worked, then i took Urine/Semen  culture it came with sterptococcus spp something like this bacteria in my semen, then they give me lenozolid, taken both test after some time urine semen culture and chlamydia test along with gonorrhea with ureaplasma and mycoplasma it came clear but symptoms didn't go, Few things where in need your help.
As i have abdomen pain since starting, so after some time like after 2-3 months so i admitted to hospital and i also took Ct scans i came with large intestine inflammed with swollen lymphnodes inside stomach or lower abdomen. can that be related to this issue.

* Should i taken the biopsy for the red/brown marks on penile like if something on skin like bacteria or fungi will it come in that?
* As i told i have white marks inside meatus looks inflammation so should i go with the Cytoscopy for urethra?
The chlamydia IgG test isn't the most reliable way of knowing if you have chlamydia. A urine test or swab test is much more reliable.

You have an inflamed large intestine? Do you have ulcerative colitis? That's something that needs more attention than whatever this is.

It isn't related to an STI or sex in any way, but can be very serious.

This is not STI related. I can't advise you any further since you have the possibility of having a very serious medical condition that needs attention. You need to follow up with your doctors, and follow their recommendations.
20620809 tn?1504362969
You aren't going to get any std from fingering and then touching yourself.
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