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Help? I need a lot of opinions
I am a 20 year old straight male. I've only had nonmonogamous sex 3 times but all with promiscuous females whose std status are unknown. Anyway I used a condom for all the occasions but my first two times they broke.
1. My first time (15 yo) was with a big time hoe (lack of better word). Her vagina smelled like fish and the condom broke. A week later I developed swollen groin lyphm nodes fever and swollen penis. I went the docotr and was told I had UTI and gave meds for it and the symtoms cleared up.
2. My 2nd time (16 yo) was with a younger girl (14 yo) condom broke as well. I didn't develope any symptoms but I was paranoid because of last time so I got tested and all was negative.
Next few years I was in a relationship with a virgin no condom breaks.
3. Last time (19 yo) sex with a 21 year old who was very experienced. For once condom didn't break but developed symptoms 2 days later. Lower back pain for 3 weeks tailbone pain after that and neck pain and headache. Tested for all STDS except herpes all negative.
So my question is, I don't recall being tested for GH, could my first STD scare been Herpes ( no lesions) and never had any symtoms since doctor said It was a UTI. The first two girls have both had babies since then if that means anything.I've never had typical herpe symptoms. Plus my last experience was the scariest because of all the information on the internet so if I did have herpes I assume it would be from my last expereince.
1. My first time (15 yo) was with a big time hoe (lack of better word). Her vagina smelled like fish and the condom broke. A week later I developed swollen groin lyphm nodes fever and swollen penis. I went the docotr and was told I had UTI and gave meds for it and the symtoms cleared up.
2. My 2nd time (16 yo) was with a younger girl (14 yo) condom broke as well. I didn't develope any symptoms but I was paranoid because of last time so I got tested and all was negative.
Next few years I was in a relationship with a virgin no condom breaks.
3. Last time (19 yo) sex with a 21 year old who was very experienced. For once condom didn't break but developed symptoms 2 days later. Lower back pain for 3 weeks tailbone pain after that and neck pain and headache. Tested for all STDS except herpes all negative.
So my question is, I don't recall being tested for GH, could my first STD scare been Herpes ( no lesions) and never had any symtoms since doctor said It was a UTI. The first two girls have both had babies since then if that means anything.I've never had typical herpe symptoms. Plus my last experience was the scariest because of all the information on the internet so if I did have herpes I assume it would be from my last expereince.
1. if your partner has a discharge/smell or you have a discharge/smell, you should not have sex.
2. it does not sound like herpes, but you should get tested for all stds once per year since you have multiple partners.
3. stop calling girls "hoes" because they had sex. the word that you are looking for is "*****". these girls are no different from your mother, sister or aunt. the only difference is that they had sex with you.
2. it does not sound like herpes, but you should get tested for all stds once per year since you have multiple partners.
3. stop calling girls "hoes" because they had sex. the word that you are looking for is "*****". these girls are no different from your mother, sister or aunt. the only difference is that they had sex with you.
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What you have had doesnt' sound like herpes, especially since it cleared up with antibiotics. If you are concerned about herpes, ask your doctor for a type specific IgG herpes blood test.
I'd also be really careful about calling these girls the names that you've chosen. After all, if you are having sex with them, what makes you different from them? Just sayin.
AJ
I'd also be really careful about calling these girls the names that you've chosen. After all, if you are having sex with them, what makes you different from them? Just sayin.
AJ
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