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penis and vagina contact

hi

i had met a stranger few days ago,we did had a safe vaginal sex,he used a condom
but before putting on his condom,he rubbed his penis around my vaginal area
however no penetration was done and also we had a bath ,when he was not using his condom

what are the chances of getting infected in this case?
Please advise
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652407 tn?1300737199
skin to skin contact can cause some std transmition but the risk is very low. HSV or syphilis and or HPV warts can be transmitted via skin to skin but some doctors consider that too low of a risk to even be concerned about.
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HIV questions belong in the HIV forum, But do not start talking about breast milk and other fluids and yourself. This shows an extreme anxiety issue that should be discussed with a therapist.
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hi kdaily

while reading over like hundreds of articles on hiv here,i got some knowledge too
and few concerns too
"hiv can transmit through breast milk"
being one of them,
i had a concern that is it only the breast milk than can carry HIV or some other fluids too can be a carrier?
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Thnks
Vance :)!!

i also got in touch with that stranger,he was also worried about the same ,,
hes much relieved now..
however hes complaining of some burning sensation in his penis tip
bt i think that is quite normal in guys
i googled it though and found the same prob in many men out there
neways
thnks all for the prompt responses :)
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You were answered right by Alley and kdaily. Put this to bed and move on.
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hi..
are there any other symtoms ,both in males and females that he/she should be worried about and get checked as soon as possible
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hey kelly and vance

thnks a lot,,
m quite relieved now
:)
but do u want to suggest me smthing..?
like any test or anything
its been 5 months i had that encounter..
i dint see or face any health issues as till now
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652407 tn?1300737199
also this is not your thread so any further comments regarding you ends
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652407 tn?1300737199
heres a question, you're 31 and a male... have you ever had unprotected insertive sex before? if so you could have aquired any STD from that. Your encounter was wearing underwear during your "Rubbing" and as vance said you have nothing to prove you even have HSV. The only thing you are doing is providing a unwarrented scare; please keep your opinions to yourself.
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The risk is low enough from protected sex that it is not a major concern.
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I'm' not disagreeing with you at all, but to say you can not transmit it skin-to-skin is false. I agree the risk is low, but low is not zero.

While it is true that I do not have a confirmed diagnosis, I am planning to see an Internist soon to get tested. Anyone who has sex and/or thinks they have been exposed should be having regular check-ups, regardless if you have symptoms or not. A lot of people (80-90%) who carry HSV do not even realize it for lack of symptoms or misidentifying them as something else.
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That is a very wrong statement to make. To start you do not have a confirmed diagnosis and 2nd Dr.HHH gave you a great assestment. You can not believe what he told you and that is fine but don't speak falsehoods like you have done. This causes anxiety to heighten in people.
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Transmission can happen, that's how I contracted it.
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hey aelly
thnks for the prompt response

But can i ask one more thing...if his penis was al over my vagina before penetration..cant he have left sm infection over the vaginal area?
his foreskin was not pulled up however at that time..
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1331558 tn?1317687687
No penetration equals no risk. You had a protected encounter so no risk at all.
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