Risky exposure with unknown woman!

[End_inertia]

Hi, I am a 24 yo male. A few hours back I visited a female (csw) and was involved in mutual masturbation and protected oral sex. However, I am worried over it. My encounter is as follows:

It began when I took my pants and she stroked my penis and touched my genitals for a few minutes. She put on a condom and masturbated be which was followed by oral sex. There were a couple of instances where I masturbated myself between receiving oral sex (where her saliva must have been on the condom). There was kissing on the upper body and her nipples were not specifically in contact with my mouth/saliva ( I did not suck her nipples just kissed her breasts). I didn't find any obvious sores or lesions around her mouth or any part of the body. I later finished off with masturbating myself into the condom. I didn't see the condom torn or any visible damage by the end.

During the oral there were a couple of instances where it hurt me. It felt like a bite but there were no cuts on the condom. The entire time, she was trying to kiss me on the face and the lips. I was trying to avoid the kisses and don't remember any sort of close french kissing. There was slight rubbing between our legs. She was trying to put her thighs over mine where I tried avoiding that. She wasn't on top of me and neither was any intentional dry humping between us. She was wearing a long skirt and so besides that, her genitals or legs were not in bare contact with mine. She told me  that is free from std and that she keeps getting tested every month in routine and that I should proceed having sex with her. She later told me that she is involved in unprotected oral with her clients if they prefer, for a higher fee. However, I completely abstained and got worried.  

I am very worried about the two instances when it hurt during the oral. I can still feel pain in the penis. I came home, took a shower where I checked and found no minor or bleeding cuts. Also, during the oral, I could see the bottom portion of the condom where it covered my penis and don't think there was any prolonged contact between her mouth and my penis. I was a bit high when all this took place and feel very stupid about this. I have been involved in previous such encounters and realise the risks now. I am also aware that herpes, HIV and other std can can spread via such contact. I'm very worried  and sorry about the whole thing from that point.  

Owing to the above exposure, what are my chances of being safe from any std or diseases like scabies etc. from the bed and and touching the other individual whose status is not known. When should I test (at its earliest) for a "safe zone". Just sorry about it all. Looking forward to your reply.

Thanks a lot Medhelp community.

[Life360_Dave]

Hi, the mastubation is zero risk and  with the oral if her mouth did not go beyond the condom it would be zero risk also.

[End_inertia]

Thank You for the reply. I have been checking my lips and other parts of the body in the last few days for possible signs of any infection. Currently, I am very worried. The right side on my inner thigh was occasionally itching in the last 2 days or so. Today, I noticed a reddish spot there. It feels like an internal bump there and that something might develop. What could it be? Is it herpes or any skin disease?
The area there is quite hairy and might have been irritated while sitting on the bike or so. That's also what I have in mind about it apart from the exposure. But I am worried about it.  
Please Help. Thanks a lot for the reply.

[Life360_Dave]

As i mentioned you had zero risk from masturbation and the same with oral with a  condom.

[End_inertia]

There is a lot I'm experiencing at the moment. Have had pain around my anus and buttocks in the last few days. Have some ocassional itching around the anus as well. The symptoms have got worse. I think it might be piles or haemorrhoid. I don't know what to do about this.
Visited the barber yesterday and he said that my scalp seemed a bit reddish and scaly during the haircut. I am very worried about this whole thing.
I think HPV can spread from such a contact and some other diseases as well.
Could I have caught a STD from masturbation or oral sex (protected)? I have had several exposures in the last year with 4 involving protected oral and the rest masturbation.
Do diseases take time to appear and be asymptomatic?
I have never had an entire STD screening. What should I do?
Please try and Answer. Need advice.
Thank You.

[pallidum]

You can have protected sex and think you are fine, but lo and behold, you might not be, even if you perform basic hygiene before and directly after the encounter.

It's not just the condom, it's about whether or not your partner maintains practices that are generally considered basic hygiene include washing hands regularly, especially before handling your genitals.

Certain bugs are highly contagious.

Herpes, for example, is highly contagious, and you don't have to have direct contact with a sore to get it. Also, gel and acrylic nails are a health risk because of the germs that get stuck under them. In fact, in some EU countries, they are banned among employees who serve food and drinks at cinemas. In other countries, they and long nails in general are banned among employees providing home help services for the same reasons. Faecal matter, and bacteria and viruses get stuck under nails and can be transferred by them.

Did you have her saliva on your hands, then touch her breasts and then kiss them? Then you got her saliva in your mouth.