Hi, yesterday I ended up hooking up with a guy I met at a club saturday night. We engaged in mutual masturbation and heavy kissing. We rubbed our penises together for a little bit, but there was no penetration and no oral sex (aside from him licking my testicles for like 20 seconds).
He did not cum.
After we finished we talked about sex and I told him I don't like anal cause I'm afraid of stds and condom breaking. He then told me he's HIV+ and that everything in life implies a risk, but if you don't take risks then you might as well be dead.
I'm now really scared. I also feel a mild sore throat. How high is my risk of getting HIV or any other STD here??